You have met already long enough and decided that you are ready to spend your vacation together. But this is almost a "honeymoon"! I want everything to be unforgettable. But it's not so simple. So, the first joint vacation - what problems? And here are some ...
Great idea: for two whole weeks you will fall asleep and wake up in one bed, eat at one table and sit side by side on the sightseeing bus! What should I take care of in advance so as not to spoil the holiday and keep a warm relationship?
Problem 1. Who is who?
Often, after returning from a trip, the couple either marry or part. Living in a common room can be regarded as a "sampler" of family life. The situation is complicated by the fact that lovers after a free schedule of romantic dates plunge into the atmosphere of a round-the-clock stay next to each other. Then it turns out that your Romeo does not know how to defend his rights and therefore you were placed in a "chic" room with a view of the construction site.
Just a couple of months ago, you could wander the whole night through the city, holding hands. And now his beloved prefers to fry all day on the beach and does not react at all to your requests to take a walk around the city.
To avoid such misunderstandings and reduce the number of reasons for quarrels, discuss with a young man in advance what you will do on vacation.
Despite the fact that you spend your holidays together, do not rush to extremes and demand from the beloved per minute co-ordination of the cultural program, or, on the contrary, follow each of his desires to the detriment of their interests. Nothing terrible will happen if you spend a few hours a day separately.
Problem 2. In the accounts.
If before the boyfriend paid for you in a cafe, you should not put all your financial worries on him. Combine funds in the overall budget to avoid situations where each of you will have to pay for a pass to the observation deck. Agree on the maximum amount that you plan to spend on food, entertainment and transportation.
Despite the overall "cashier", for security reasons, it is better to store money in different places, rather than keep it in one purse. It's important to have some cash for pocket money. Hardly you want to spend money on souvenirs for relatives and friends of a young man. Although, this is your own business.
Problem 3. Chur, I'm at the wall!
There is a double bed at your disposal: finally you will be alone! Perhaps, having received free access to your body, your beloved will offer to lock yourself in the room until the end of your vacation. Or, on the contrary, realizing that you are always there, prefer the nights of passion football on TV. In these two weeks you will learn his true sexual appetites.
A common bed is not only an intimacy, but also a dream. To the night did not turn into a contest for pulling a blanket, you should not set yourself the goal of necessarily sleeping in an embrace. Let everyone equip their half of the bed the way they used to. In the morning, do not complain about the snoring of a loved one. Believe me, he also has something to tell.
IF WE WILL NOT BE ONE ...
• Here is the news: on vacation, a friend of your hero and his girlfriend joined you. Do not sulk: they will not prevent you from being alone. Use the chance to impress his friends: turn on the charm! Let the boyfriend see how great it is to be friends with families!
• If you have quarreled with the sweet, do not hurry to complain to your friends about it. At best, you will be considered a crybaby, at worst - the content of the conversation will become known to your loved one. Learn to solve problems yourself, without entangling others. This advice is appropriate not only during the holidays, but also in later life.