Who does not like to walk around the guests, such people will be few. Everyone is pleased when invited to visit, and it is pleasant to communicate in a pleasant company and it's nice to meet the guests themselves. But there are things that can spoil everyone's mood, and this may be caused by the oversight of the invited people. And those who disappointed us, no one will invite the second time. To avoid falling into the black list of guests, you must follow certain rules.
Good Tone for Guests
Come on time, but not before
What you need to pay attention to is what you need to arrive on time. Immediately give up the idea that it is better to come to visit early. And this is for obvious reasons, since there are no people who are in time and everywhere and the mistress of the house is no exception. Let's imagine a picture: the mistress in the curlers and the robe puts the roast in the oven, to bring everything fresh and hot to the table. At the same time it is tinted and is going to change for 20 minutes in order to have time to meet guests at the appointed time, having stained the festive clothes. And then you arise, half an hour before the time, as agreed. Imagine how spoiled the mood of the hostess, you did not give her the opportunity to appear in all beauty and splendor. And even if you have enough time, it's better to go shopping or on the street. Even if you are invited to a close friend or relative, do not come earlier, unless you are asked to help the owners.
Do not be late
The other extreme is lateness. When you invite a lot of people you need to set a time frame, for example, from 16 to 16.30. It is accepted that at this time dens will gradually come and communicate. And when time runs out, you do not need to wait for one latecomer. If there is a person among those invited who is always late, then he should be invited an hour earlier, he will still be late, and, therefore, he will come on time.
Do not go on a visit empty-handed
If you came to visit on a special occasion - a wedding or an anniversary, then you will not come empty handed. Good-sounding rules say if a person who invited you to visit has children, you need to pay attention to them, not necessarily to spend a lot. It will be enough to buy them inexpensive toys or a chocolate bar. If you go to a friend, and she lives with her parents, you need to pay attention to them and a rose or a small box of chocolates will be a good gift, so you show respect and this will create a pleasant and good environment.
Feel yourself on a visit, you are not at home
On a visit it is not necessary to say that such a wine does not fit in this dish, I do not eat it. You do not need to know that you do not eat certain things and that you are on a diet. If you drink only dry or red wine, take care of it yourself and take a bottle with you, as the financial possibilities of all are different, and the owners are not able to adjust to the tastes of each of the guests.
It is strictly forbidden to criticize and discuss cooked meals. Do not pay attention to yourself, not letting others insert a word. Even in the house of your close friends, you can not open caskets, a cupboard and splash yourself with the spirits of the mistress and, as if by the way, look into someone else's refrigerator. Before using a towel, ask how you can take it, since you can wipe your hands with a towel for your feet. Bad form for guests will require that the owner or hostess open gifts. If they start comparing gifts that are brought by guests, it can ruin the whole evening.
Guests, not tired of you owners?
It is not necessary to wait for all the topics to be exhausted, the owners will dull their eyes and they will yawn. Rarely when the owners say that the holiday is over and it's time to go home. It is necessary to be attentive and observant. But the hostess needs to wash the dishes, get out and get some sleep before work. When you leave, do not start conversations in the corridor, thank you, say goodbye, leave quickly.