Receiving gifts is always a very pleasant experience. After all, a gift is perceived by us as something that not only demonstrates a warm feeling for the recipient, but also is the main key to a direct location in relation to the donor. Most of all gifts come from the address of the fair sex representatives from the male part of the population. Thanks to different gifts, surprises and attention, men show interest and respect for a woman.
Plus, this manifestation of nobility helps a man to show himself a well-bred, gallant and very generous gentleman. But most of the ladies are wary of such "generosity" and it is for this reason that we decided to share how to receive gifts from men without feeling any embarrassment or remorse.
What is a gift?
In fact, gifts equate to such an exchange plan - you to me, and I to you. The most reasonable and correct, in the opinion of most ladies, is the receipt of gifts from men during organized festivities (birthday, March 8, etc.). Such gifts, as a rule, are perceived calmly and do not entail any superfluous thoughts and prejudices. The donor presents a gift, and the recipient, in turn, honors him with all the delicacies from the festive table and organizes a positive pastime. In such a bustle, it often happens that the very moment of presenting a gift passes unnoticed, it can be said somehow ordinary. But here no one is offended and everyone is dissatisfied with themselves. Just at such a moment ladies always take gifts from men and do not even think about it.
Unexpected gifts
Any person, both man and woman, is always lost if he is suddenly given a gift. By the way, the more valuable and expensive the gift, the stronger the feeling of confusion. A woman in such a situation immediately begins to cheat and mentally look for forgery in such an act of a man. As a rule, the phrases of the plan immediately fly to the donor's address: "Oh, why did you spend so much, do not do it", "I can not accept such a gift," etc. But do not say that, but you will have to receive the gift. So it turns out that a woman falls into a certain dependence on a man, because now she is obliged to repay him. And the gentleman "freezes" in anticipation of a return move by the woman. It is worth noting that here there is no question of any material values, because a man just needs favors and gratitude from the lady. It is very good if a woman is willing to give a man a positive affection for his person, but what to do if she is dumbfounded and does not know how to proceed? At such a moment it is necessary to ably react to an unexpected gift, in order not to please in an ambiguous situation.
Here you can highlight the simplest and most effective way that will help to get out of the situation: in response to your own gift to make a response to a man. It is best to do it immediately after you have succeeded in getting your present. This simple, but very effective way will certainly help a woman "easily and unharmedly" get out of male dependence and not feel awkward at the same time.
By the way, pampering men with a reciprocal gift similar to price or importance is not necessary. Such a gift can be a usual bauble, but presented with all the heart, accompanied by warm words about love, understanding, friendship, support, etc. If a man that gives a gift, expects more, and a woman sees in him just a friend, her words should not carry in themselves any hint that this relationship can have its future.
And the last thing, to receive gifts from the stronger sex is always worthwhile. If you do not want to have anything to do with this or that man, it's best to give up the gift. And in the event that the donor is your close friend or beloved person, if you do not accept the gift of which you will hurt him, get your "legal", do not forget to show him your sincere gratitude, even if not in return, but in words!