Do not just survive, that is to oversleep it, namely to enjoy. And, if half the family helps you in preparing the celebrations, then it's quite personal, but no less important. According to the testimony of psychologists from the way the wedding night passes, further intimate relationships and understanding during the course of one's life will depend.
Therefore, among all the pre-wedding fuss you need to find a little time for the intimate sphere. Something you can think about in advance, so as not to postpone everything at the last moment.
For example, to go shopping with linens and get for Him the Beloved and Yourself Magic that is extraordinarily refined and attractive. On such things it is usually a pity for money - however here a special case and in any case it is impossible to skimp. Therefore, as you can by the way will be stockings, lace, silk and satin. Note that your new thing should not be limited to one set. If you want to completely stun your beloved, then you can start the night in a translucent corset (he will provide you with a slender figure and a seductive bust).
After "how to powder the nose" in the bathroom, boldly return to your beloved in a new image of a seductive bride. For example - in negligee and stockings. And after 2-3 glasses of champagne - just turn into a fairy fairy from a wedding garter on the leg (at this stage, unnecessary details are inappropriate).
Your seductive underwear is just one small touch to the delights of the first night of love. Pay attention to the bed linen. It can also be looked after earlier, so that in the last days you can not buy what was first in your hands. The most popular cloth for "clothes of your bed" is cambric and satin. Because they are made of cotton, they are pleasant to the touch and well "breathe". Who likes silk sheets, keep in mind that they are quite slippery. Therefore, it is better to buy a mixture of silk and cotton.
The latest fashion trend is a satin bed made especially for your order, decorated with lace and decorated with your personalized embroidered embroideries. If you ask for help from professionals in the wedding industry, believe me, they will give professional advice on design, ornament and color. So, even if you and your lover have met for a long time before the wedding, be sure that your efforts to surprise him will be fully appreciated.
The next step in cooking should be choosing a place for this special night. In the event that you live with your parents, then wrap this night in a real extravaganza of feelings is almost impossible, can you be able to talk in a whisper and walk on tiptoe? However, this is not at all. The best option is to rent a hotel room. There you can also order, for example, a bottle of wine or good champagne, fruit and some unusual snacks. By the way, in some hotels even there are rooms for newlyweds with a prize as a gift - a special dish or a bottle of a good drink. Like and a trifle, but pleasant.
The only thing you can rely on a friend is to sprinkle your bed and path from the door with rose petals. In this case, the moment of surprise will be for you. You until the last moment will not know how it all looks in the final version. But when you want to make all the arrangements yourself, just order your favorite flowers and place them as you personally like.
Sometimes brides already have their own accommodation. Therefore, you can safely turn it into a palace of love on the eve of the wedding. When a good mood in it will remain for a while. After all, you do not need to remove all attributes of the holiday the next day.
Try to remember your beloved's favorite tunes. You can choose something completely new, but romantic. Pleasant music is an indispensable element of the night action.
Do not forget about the candles. There must be many and everywhere. (If you want to catch two hares at once, the candles can be scented.) If you cook everything carefully, to the last detail - choose the smells that excite the erotic attraction.) Rose, jasmine and lavender - relieve fatigue and tension, give strength and stimulate sexual attraction.This means have been tested not for years, but rather for centuries.Be sure that even after a grueling wedding feast, you do not recognize your partner.
To create an atmosphere of temptation and eroticism, you can also use essential oils or aromas of basil, ylang-ylang, orange and any citrus fruits that contribute to the production of the hormone oxytocin. It stimulates sexual desire.
When you have finished all previous preparations, remember a few basic rules.
On the last day before the celebration, you should get a good night's sleep. After all, even the best cosmetics will not hide your tired face. If anything remains unfinished - do not pay attention. You only get married once, so all the little things do not have such a value to spoil the mood.
During the feast, try not to abuse food and alcohol. (This should be advised and loved), you can try the delights the next day. All the same, everything can not be eaten. Why overload the body.
Your wedding and wedding night are 24 hours of your reign. The world revolves only around the newlyweds, so the rest of the problems go to the background. By the way, to solve them you still have a long family life ahead.
Do not miss your brightest moment of happiness and joy, love and hope, sexual games and sincere confessions of love. It was not for nothing that L. Tolstoy wrote in one of his works: "Catch the moment of happiness. Make yourself love yourself and fall in love yourself. After all, love is the only thing for which it is worth living in this world. "