Everything that is happening to you now has its name - passion or "sick love". This feeling does not bring happiness, but only exhausts you and causes unimaginable heartache and pain.
Your mind realizes that this passion has no continuation, and you will never be happy with this man. But, to overcome this killing feeling in yourself, you are not able.
How to get rid of the passion that enslaves your whole being? How to overcome this dependence and find happiness?
The most mysterious creation of God is a woman. Not only men, but, sometimes psychologists are not able to understand the logic of our actions, the causes of drug addiction and dependence on men.
Women often suffer from love dependence, sometimes men. Passion is a drug that destroys your entire body, giving only a second of pleasure. Unfortunately, passion is often mistaken for love.
A man who has experienced love affection and passion is often disappointed in love and in women. In every next woman he meets, and who will show sympathy for him, is likely to accept the enemy and the source of pain in the future.
In women, things are different. If you manage to get rid of the passion for one man, over time, she found a new drug.
Unfortunately, passion and love depend on the person's ability to just love and be happy. He is constantly short of those explosive emotions and pain that the past, so to speak, relations brought him.
I wonder why there is "sick love"? Psychologists have come to the conclusion that people who have a very low self-esteem often fall into love dependence. Lack of love from others also leads to the fact that a person becomes dependent on his love object. These people, do not have enough love, especially to themselves. They are trying to fill empty poverty, seeking the attention of another person. Naturally, the feelings they experience are not love. It is rather selfishness and infringement.
Another reason for the emergence of narcotic passion is the misconception that the object of adoration is the ideal partner for a future life. The desire to be loved is further fueled by the belief that a man is ideal in every sense.
How to get rid of passion?
Very often, to help a person get rid of love addiction, professional intervention is necessary. After all, the reasons for which a passion for the object of adoration arises, originate from the very childhood.
To understand the reasons, auto-training can help.
Autotraining is a method that is used in psychotherapy. Thanks to this method, a person learns autosuggestion. Helps to calm your nerves, get rid of stress.
To help yourself get rid of passion and love addiction, learn to love yourself. Listen to yourself. If it does not work out, then every morning inspire yourself with this - "I love myself"! Remember that you are alone. After all, you want to be happy, why self-doom yourself to suffer and suffer.
Read books, listen to music, download yourself work, meet with friends. A wonderful way to forget yourself is to purchase a ticket to a resort or to a place you've been dreaming of since childhood.