The great-granddaughters of the proud Roman matrons, during whose time the Women's Day was born, came to the conclusion that the presence of their beloved on the women's day of spring and beauty, frankly speaking, to nothing. Men on this day are allowed only to deliver their half to the place of celebration (having handed before a luxurious gift), and then escorted home.
It is tempting on the one hand. But on the other, it seems to me that the idea is closer to being with your loved one. Get an indispensable bouquet of red roses (purple irises or white tulips), go together for a romantic walk in the park (lie in bed until evening or go to the premiere of a soul-mellow melodrama), and in the evening visit a good restaurant (arrange dinner at home together or invite a party to a dozen nearby friends). The script of this women's day of spring and beauty can be anything, the main thing is that you spend it unforgettably, feel that you are loved and appreciated, realized that you are happy without any "buts."
Waiting for a miracle
What do you think, what are we waiting for on the eve of Women's Day? Flowers, exquisite jewelry, sexy underwear, sweets, fashionable perfumes? Of course, none of us will refuse from these presents, but on the contrary, will be offended if they do not receive a gift from this list as a gift. But gifts, whatever one may say, are just one of the sweetest components of what we are so eagerly waiting for on March 8. We expect more: pleasant surprises, which we ourselves might not have been able to describe, but when they occur, we will necessarily understand "Yes, this is what I dreamed of!" Surprises, miracles, finally. The wonders that our beloved men organize on this day. But that they were exactly as you dreamed, let's help our elected representatives in their implementation a little.
Pre-holiday realism
Surely in your life you have repeatedly faced with the fact that the idea of how grandiose to celebrate the Women's Day (however, like some other remarkable dates) you and your partner are somewhat different. Last year you, for example, dreamed that you and your husband will spend this day only together, but he took and invited friends (it was good even though he cooked dinner himself). And your close friend hoped that her husband would present her with a puppy of a French bulldog, whom they admired at the exhibition. But she received a gift ring, the ugliest of which you did not meet (fortunately, it could be returned to the store, which she quietly did). Thanks to these not very bright examples, you finally realized: the partner, no matter how close you are, will still not be able to read your thoughts. And quietly tell your man about which "scarlet sails" or "queen's turtles" you dream of on this spring day, better ahead of time. How can this be done? Psychologists say that your hints should be unobtrusive, but at the same time specific, and contain some bright detail that will help a man remember your desire. For example, "What a stylish bag that girl has. Black suede, my love! I think I saw a similar in the store next to the supermarket. " You can be sure, your husband will gladly use your help. The only thing, do not push. It will be pleasant to him as if to guess yourself. Similarly, you can quietly "edit" and how you spend the holiday. For example, if you mention a few times about what a wonderful cafe was opened in the neighborhood and how you would like to drink tea there with a branded charlotte, most likely, on the 8th of March your wish will come true.
Many thanks! Be sure to express your joy in occasion of any congratulations, displays of attention, a gift. Smile, sincerely thank, make a compliment to the taste and fantasy of a loved one. Even if he did not ... please you. Despite everything, he tried, pondered, chose, spent. Perhaps you just did not tell the partner the right information, thinking that he should guess himself about your desires, or too transparently hinting. Do not worry and upset your loved one. Buy what you dreamed of, or ask for it next time. Holidays ahead is a lot!