In life, almost anything can happen, but a few things beat more painfully than the betrayal of a loved one. Pushing a person on can be disappointed in his life partner, marriage, etc. Usually it is said in such cases that one can not be completely safe from this. However, betrayal of marriage can be avoided.
How? To this question, unfortunately, there is no single true and accurate advice that is guaranteed to help save a marriage and prevent a change. However, there are several tips with which you can reduce the risk to the minimum.
First of all, remove the pink glasses from your eyes. Love your partner, an an idea of him. Love what it really is, do not ideal, otherwise one day your beautiful ideas about it can suddenly be destroyed. Do not expect that a joint life will always be easy and carefree, without disagreements and quarrels, or you can be greatly disappointed.
Divide in half, and joy, and sorrow among themselves. Try to do so that you were with your partner a single whole, look at the world from one point of view, so that your goals coincide - and you will easily overcome all adversities and shocks. Do not share the relationship with "I" and "HE", try to think "WE".
It is known that one should not enter a marriage without accepting this decision consciously and not having prepared for it as best as possible. This is true, since marriage is a daily hard work to preserve the family. Do not let the feelings and love fog your head - they are, of course, necessary, however, a serious decision on how to marry or not, it is best to do the thinking with confidence and calmly. Remember that if you hurry with the decision, then the responsibility to which you were not ready, will simply crush you.
Disputes and disagreements are also part of family life. However, be careful, the scandals and boycotts of the second half are not included in this part. In marriage, it is forbidden to insult a partner, the more so try to apply forceful actions to his address. If you really want to insert an unflattering epithet or obscene language against a partner, bite your tongue if you want to save the marriage! Even if you later apologize - still the sediment remains and will gradually accumulate, eventually bursting into changes and disruptions. If you disagree with your partner in some way - calmly tell him about it. Think about whether your partner will strive to come home as soon as possible, if he knows that when you come home you will immediately attack him with claims and mistakes?
Consent and harmony - that's what should be the ultimate goal of your relationship, both intimate and so-groomed. If this is not so, it is quite possible that your partner will decide to find what he lacks, somewhere on the side with an outsider. For mutual openness and trust, intimacy is important.
Be frank. And absolutely in everything. If a problem arises, state your disagreement right away, do not save in yourself. Once again, this applies to all areas of life, even sexual. If you think that you have silenced the problem - this is not so, in fact, you have aggravated it. In the event that you want to become the only partner for your loved one, you need to learn to trust him completely and trust him.
Do not forget to watch yourself, constantly develop and improve, both externally and spiritually. Again and again win your partner - this will help you to keep mutual attraction and attraction to each other.
And, finally, the main thing. All of the above should be used constantly, and not only at the moment when you are already seriously thinking about divorce, otherwise you can just not have time to save a relationship!