Regardless of our desire, the first occupation of having sex with a new partner is often felt as a kind of "sexual examination", that is, there is not a single thought in the head, the knees are trembling and scary enough. Even if a woman realizes that for a man the situation is similar, this does not always help. What to talk about, how to behave, what to keep silent about - there are many more questions than answers.
Situation number 1. The man is in a hurry to go to the
Sometimes it seems that many men have not heard that a woman long-lasting foreplay is necessary, so that the probability of getting an orgasm was higher. Is your partner hurrying to go to the closeness without paying more attention to the preliminaries? Nothing wrong.
You simply need to be able to separate passion from haste. If this is a rush, then you can gradually incline a man to foreplay, best showing him an example. It is very important in this case that your actions are not associated with him with a refusal, ascomire with the desire to prolong the pleasure for both partners. If this passion is possible, it is worth going to meet - the sexual pressure, a flurry of emotions, suddenness and unusual places for having sex can make sexual intercourse much more memorable and fascinating than a timid, accurate and slow prelude.
Situation number 2. The size of his dignity surprised you
How much male dignity your partner has is a delicate matter. Although there are many signs that you can recognize this size by looking at the size of the nose, the length of your fingers, etc. - none of them at the very time will give an accurate result. The first night, especially the moment when a man takes off his underwear, looks like a lottery. Can I somehow learn how to win it? Quite possible.
Here, your goal is to adapt, choosing the right position and constantly praising it. If the size of the penis is larger than any of your expectations, do it a compliment on this, scare as a joke, etc. If it seems to you that "there could be more" - in any case, do not stress this and do not even mention it at all - most often the man already has a complex on this basis. And just as well praise it. Only not the size, but his skill. Try to convince him that he is the best, since in most cases he himself strongly doubts this.
Situation number 3. He reached orgasm, and you remained "at the broken trough"
Who of us knows that sometimes a man "finishes" before his partner. But it does not take offendedly to inflate the lips and snort, showing their discontent. Try to entice him to a second sexual act, perhaps with oral sex.
Situation number 4. All turned out well, but orgasm nebylo
You were very good, your partner was on top, you want to continue your relationship in the future, but this time you did not manage to get an orgasm. You wonder if it's worth pretending to orgasm if it's not there? Most likely, it's worth it.
If that's necessary, then pretend. Consider this a kind of compliment to your man. However, if this happens regularly, then it's best to turn to a sexologist. The reasons for this phenomenon are not that small - starting from what a partner can not know about your erogenous zones and how to properly influence them, psychological barriers. And do not consider this a minor problem - with constant sexual stimulation without the onset of orgasm, phenomena of a stagnant nature in the pelvic organs may arise, which increases the likelihood of inflammation of the ovaries and fibroids.
Situation number 5. The man had problems with spotting
Of course, there are many reasons why there can be no erections. And at such a time, the reason, in general, is unimportant, the main thing - what needs to be done.
Try to help the partner relax and not let him experience stress about this. Try oral sex. It is worth trying to postpone sex in the morning, saying that you have plenty of time to rub on each other, both figuratively and literally.
And the most important thing - realize that a man at the moment does not have the opportunity to compare your current with the one you were before. He does not know what you will be, so you can afford to be absolutely any you want.