And someone believes that this is an opportunity to pursue a career, avoid everyday problems, do not be afraid to lose brightness in sex. In a word, to each his own. Let's try to understand all the advantages and disadvantages of guest marriage.
So what he really is, a guest marriage? When a man and a woman love each other and want to be together, they enter into a legal marriage, sometimes they just start living together, in a civil marriage. But how they spend their lives together is the individual choice of each pair. And this can affect the place of residence, and work, and even health.
One of my friends lives in St. Petersburg, a couple of years ago married a Finn. In Russia, she runs a small company, she has a long-standing business relationship, regular customers, her own apartment, an adult daughter. What should she do in Finland? The "career" of the seller, as well as the housewife, does not attract her. An active woman who has lost her social status will inevitably turn into a gray mouse exhausted by domestic problems, ceasing to be interesting even to herself. Guest marriage was the perfect solution for this couple. Week in each country. He has the opportunity to be proud of a confident wife, and she loves and is loved, and no domestic turmoil complicates their relationship. And, despite the age (for both this marriage is not the first), their sexual relations may envy some young couples.
It happens that couples can spend a vacation together or just a weekend. In our crazy time, when the Internet allows not only to get acquainted, but even fall in love at a distance, the advantages of such a marriage are obvious. Many people can not leave their life in the careers or in the everyday life. But from time to time, everyone can change the usual way of life.
And what is the guest marriage for, so to speak, adult women? Among middle-aged women, many are single: widowhood, divorce, career ... The woman has already taken place, the children have grown up, live independently, but open to personal relationships, and sexually active. At the same time, they manage to acquire a bunch of habits, certain rules of life. And when a man with his stereotypes invades this life, a conflict inevitably arises. Unless you change your habits, well, or his ... The only trouble is that at this age no one wants to change them. And the dirty cup he leaves near the computer, and the socks under the bed, and the tube with the paste does not close. And a couple of days a week, he's so cute and romantic! In addition, such minor problems as a trash can or a current tap have long learned to solve on their own.
A man in a guest marriage finds the opportunity to be needed, to feel the feminine warmth and affection, and yet not lose relative freedom. You can smoke in the kitchen, not on the balcony, watch international news in the evening, and not a boring series, and you can have sex by mutual desire, and not at the request of your wife.
There is still an important factor. Disappearing defects of marriage associated with the problems of "fathers and children." Children, as you know, at any age tend to be too jealous of their parents. In the case of a guest marriage, children come to their parents at a convenient time for everyone, and there is no danger of accidental encounters with your partner.
Modern life offers us various forms of relationships. And you can choose the only form of communication that suits you. And then your life will shine with bright, amazing colors!