There are complexes both in women and in men. But if men cope with them more easily and they do not influence their personal life so much, then women are different. Their personal beliefs in any of their shortcomings (mostly imaginary) or simply invented fears completely shut their way to happiness and family well-being. Women's complexes necessarily require treatment, often not without the help of specialists.
I do not like my own body!
If, after casting a fleeting glance in the mirror, you immediately see in yourself a whole "bouquet" of shortcomings, say, a small breasts, snub nose, face in pimples, cellulite, legs curves or all this together - you have a serious complex. In this case, you absolutely do not care that some of your shortcomings (if any) can even be liked or they may simply not be noticed. The main thing is that they seriously spoil your life! The main reason for this is low self-esteem.
According to official data, about 47% of women are not satisfied with the parameters of their figure, 25% - the shape of their nose, 20% - the skin condition, etc. Psychotherapists such a complex is also called the pathology of "imaginary ugliness". For example, an absolute majority of women will never appear naked before a man. They are ready to go to a plastic surgeon soon, only to get rid of their flawed shortcomings.
You can easily recognize this complex in yourself. If you never even think about sex in the light, then the probability of 99% that this complex you have.
To help a woman, unsure of herself, a loving and beloved man can easily. If he will often say compliments to her, even if sounding somewhat improbable - in due course the woman will forget about their complexes! You can also help yourself. Does your chest seem too small? Tell yourself that the most beautiful chest should fit in the man's palm. Shy of your "thick" thighs? Compare yourself with Marilyn Monroe and repeat to yourself that only a woman with magnificent forms is truly feminine, and a thin person is more like a guy. Soon you will stop being shy! The main thing is not stop admiring yourself!
Fear of getting pregnant!
This complex can make a frigid even the sexiest woman. She reluctantly becomes touchy, afraid even to approach the man.
Similar complexes in psychology are not uncommon, but this complex is really capable of making a woman unhappy. The main sign is the preference for oral sex only. And if it happens to do the usual, the woman is constantly nervous, straining and running into the bathroom long before the ejaculation. She carefully examines the condom and ... rushes back to the bathroom to wash again "just in case."
In this case, it's hard not only for the woman herself, but also for her beloved man. Not everyone is able to tolerate such strangeness calmly. Best of all, if the partner invited her to visit the gynecologist together to pick up the contraceptive. Usually a really caring man will agree to any means of contraception and even he will be ready to buy the package of pills that the doctor will prescribe for you. Then you do not have to tremble with horror if the condom suddenly breaks or you forget about it at all. It would be better if the man hinted to her that it was not against the birth of a child. She will then understand that a man cares for her, and will begin to trust him completely. And remember that trust is the right way to orgasm.
Completeness!
In any fashionable glossy magazine, hundreds of photos of graceful beautiful girls, and you realize that they are far from their size ... Well, complexes of fullness are poisoning the lives of every seventh of ten women.
Honestly, the concept of excess weight is very conditional. There is, of course, such a thing as the body mass index. It is calculated by a special simple formula: the weight is divided by the height in the square. The normal mass index is 20-25 kg / m 2 . When he is above this figure, then you really are overweight and may even be obese! But the accumulation of extra pounds is not always associated with an irrepressible appetite. Sometimes the causes of fatigue are problems in the endocrine system. In this case, you just need to choose the right diet, which will make you forget about the problem of excess weight forever.
I'm not sexy!
This is the greatest and most persistent female stupidity. Most often, these women's complexes give rise to one word accidentally dropped by a man. It can really bring a woman to a state of complete decline. The main thing is not to despair!
The most frequent problem of this kind occurs in the postpartum period, when a woman has a natural widening of the vagina. This often provokes problems between spouses in sexual life. Bad grasp of the penis may cause a man to weaken sexual sensitivity. If this problem does not disappear with time, then the only thing that can help is an operative reduction in the size of the vagina. By such an operation, you can return the fullness of sexual life in a woman of any age.
I'm a failure!
We are all different. Someone does not have a rebuff from fans, someone changes the season for several expensive coats, someone travels around the world. "And what am I? . . "- thinks a woman suffering from a complex loser. Here again in all is to blame for low self-esteem. But there is a way out! You need to learn from the success of successful people. Praise yourself more often. Let even for the most minor achievements. Set goals before you. And do not forget, having reached it, generously reward yourself!
My train left ...
Usually women's complexes in psychology differ from men's, but this complex is present both in those and in others. You wanted to achieve a lot, but a certain age (for everyone it's different) came up, and you decided that "the train left". The blame for everything is the cult of youth, so sung in fashion films and magazines, the fear of appearing ridiculous and, again, low self-esteem. Live, not looking back, the way you want. Do not be afraid to dream! Smile! It is proved that a sincere smile is able to give youth and prolong life!