So, you're attractive, interesting and terribly lonely. For a long time I did not meet with a decent man, or just with the right one for you, or in the end, I have not met anyone for a long time. And now, finally, a long-awaited meeting. Let's talk about what you should not say at all, after the blind date has passed.
"I'm worried, because I really liked it"
A little worry is normal. But panic, trembling of hands, goose bumps and a stupid smile instead of an answer is already a clinical case. And most likely, alas, this is not the one who destined you for destiny. After all, with a kindred spirit you will be absolutely comfortable. You and three hours later did not find a common language on the date? Do not continue to worry - this is just an episode in life!
"We are not at all alike, but we can try to come to a compromise"
Exciting meetings, talking all night long, waiting for a touch and tender kisses, short but meaningful looks! Really, instead of all this, only "compromise" and "better than one" remained for you? If you already on the first date understand that you have too different ideas about relationships, different values of life, and besides, you do not experience that familiar, exciting feeling of falling in love - this is the case when you need to listen to the heart, and not the mind. If from this date you are waiting for a really long, serious relationship, or at least just keep the pleasant feelings for a long time - move on in your search.
"We are very similar! We have tattoos in the same place! We must have a relationship "
I will not reveal the secret, if I say: the opposites are attracted. Among your acquaintances, for certain, there are couples where partners have different attachments, beliefs, interests, and even mental abilities, but are still in love with each other and insanely happy. And, conversely, with a person who knows all the heroines of your favorite TV series or adores the same sort of ice cream, it is absolutely impossible to spend a couple of hours alone. Try to think about the feelings that you have when mentioning any coincidence. Perhaps just a simple surprise, you're thinking about whether to agree to a second date. Or maybe you find a coincidence when they did not exist at all!
"He is a good guy. I'm just too unnecessarily strict. "
A good guy is not a reason to fall in love with him without looking back. Do you remember your boyfriend who was really in love? For once you remembered that he was not such a good guy? If he was late, you were sure that the evil chief had detained him at work, if he came for a birthday without a bouquet, you all assured that flowers are a waste of money. We are ready to forgive and not to notice many things when in fact they are in love. This is not nit-picking. Just you need to understand that you do not have strong feelings for this person.
"He's so wonderful, not like my ex"
Of course, the former guy will most likely lose in comparison with the new challenger. The new applicant appeared on a date on time, and even with a luxurious bouquet. And this, of course, is very pleasant. But how many comparisons can he sustain? And is it worth building a new relationship only because they are opposed to the old? You need not the antipode of the former, but a new love! Therefore, only with a stranger you can arrange a blind date, after which only pleasant feelings will remain.
Meet, find, err, and again look. And you will have a blind date, after which only pleasant feelings will remain! And you will definitely meet Him!