On a visit to friends or, say, at work, you always meet with a man who looks good in appearance, and is not poor enough, and witty, and stamps even collects, just like you did in childhood. Tell me, why is he not the groom? Unfortunately, there is only one problem: the magic prince does not pay any attention to you. Well, then you will need to take the whole initiative into your own hands. Here are ways how to win a man?
Cast aside doubts.
You hesitate, but do you really need to try to win his heart? Of course, you need, after all, you will not lose anything. To make a pleasant face for a bad game you will have time always, for example, saying: "We argued with a girlfriend that you are not interested in principle in principle." I think I won! " You can be sure that there are few men who can dispassionately listen to such words. Incidentally, it can not be ruled out that your long, futile efforts to attract his attention will, in the end, be crowned with success and you will succeed in winning a man.
Be friends first.
This is an old, time-tested method - to become an indispensable and best friend of your chosen one. Always emphasize its advantages, listen carefully to complaints and try to give sensible advice, help in solving everyday problems - in a word, accustom him to the fact that you are always there, and he can hope for you in difficult moments. You can share his passion, then you will always have something to talk about, and accordingly, you can quickly conquer a man. Of course, in everything you need to observe a reasonable measure, without falling to the role of a girl in errands. Do not forget, you are a friend, and not at all a servant or a fan, so keep your dignity.
If a loved one said / did at least one disrespectful statement or action towards you, we advise you to immediately finish such a relationship - in another case, the "million torment" and "abyss of humiliation" are provided to you. However, if the friendship really took place, therefore, everything goes according to plan, and it's time for you to start implementing its final stage. In order to win a man disappear, and it is not necessarily somehow mysterious, it will be enough just to go on vacation, where you will perfectly rest before the final battle for the heart of the chosen one. If on return you will be met with open arms and words: "How well you look, you know, I missed you," you can think that the forces were spent knowingly.
Method of contrasts.
It is possible, by the way, to act differently, this is a completely opposite way of how to win a man. Arrange your beloved contrast shower, masterfully alternating fervent passion with chilling inaccessibility. First you are in front of him in an open, advantageously emphasizing the dignity of clothes, flirting with him, throwing meaningful glances and showing all your behavior: "Dear, you will only need to reach out, and here - I'm yours!"
After a while (it is very important to choose the right moment), you change your behavior to the opposite of diametrical: you are now buttoned up in all senses of the word, and the cold waves coming from you can freeze even the seasoned winterer. And then your chosen one will, at least, wonder why you have experienced similar metamorphosis.
And no matter how he treated you initially, he will be hurt because he suddenly ceased to be the object of your worship. And this means that you and all the cards in your hands: after a considerable pause, you need to condescend to the confused poor fellow, smile affectionately, start a casual conversation, and if after all these actions the relations do not become close, unfortunately, you will have to admit that you and really not according to his taste, and then it will be almost impossible to win a man. And by the way, the earlier you understand this, the better for you-a woman who, for many years barrenly chasing a man, is a truly sad sight.