In this article we will consider the most common mistakes that women make when getting acquainted with men, and we will analyze the question of how to behave to a woman when meeting a man and what errors should be avoided. It's about meticulous questioning, insecure or nervous behavior, bulging out your merits, etc. Of course, the excitement at the first meeting or on a first date is quite understandable, especially if you are experiencing a great interest and attraction to a person. But excessive demonstration of them has a disastrous effect on relations. Men do not like nervous young ladies and try to avoid them. Of course, you may have objective reasons for concern, but this is not a reason to nervously squeeze the phalanx of your fingers, swing your foot, or twist a lock of hair on your finger.
It is also not worth building at the first meeting of long-term plans, and most importantly, throwing them on the head of your new acquaintance. Especially if these plans are associated with his modest person. A man can be afraid of your extreme activity in this matter, especially since men themselves like to decide everything and plan. Let them at least believe that they are them, and not you are in charge of the process and relations.
A very ugly impression on a man, and generally those around him, produces a wrong speech, clumsy phrases or inappropriate laughter. Not only do you show the low level of your intellect, you still make the impression of a close-knit person whose whole interest is reduced to dresses, fur coats, manicure and rest on the overseas islands. The common view that men do not like intelligent women is a myth. In fact, men love, appreciate and admire intelligent women, only women are frightened of them when a woman purposely demonstrates her superiority over a man in terms of erudition, reading, etc. And this is understandable, you will agree, to any person, regardless of gender, It's unpleasant when they put him up as a fool or a stupid.
In dealing with a man, do not manipulate his interest in you, do not play with the public and do not diminish his human dignity - no one wants to feel like a puppet in someone else's hands. Even if the owner of these hands is so desirable and seductive.
Wit, good jokes, a smile and laughter discharge the situation well, but the wild cackling in the performance of a fragile young lady looks inappropriate and vulgar.
Excessive sentimentality also irritates a man. Certainly, your kindness and sympathy will always be a plus, but hysterical sobbing about the death of your favorite dog 10 years ago or an evil joke over someone will cause him a feeling of bewilderment and awkwardness. Remember, women's tears are too strong a weapon to use it in insignificant situations. Save them better for more serious cases, so that men do not develop during this time immunity.
The feeling of discomfort causes the man excessive shouts, panic, nervous throwing of keys, etc. Such antics dislodge the man from the rut, demonstrating your inability to behave and calmly react to an unpleasant situation.
You should not also indulge in all the man and agree with all his thoughts - the lack of personal opinion speaks of you as an immature person and reduces male interest. In this case, you will look like a beautiful doll for him, and not a person with formed views on life and a system of moral and ethical values. But, when expressing your opinion, avoid imposing it on other people. Remember how many people - so many opinions.
Never and never in any way remember with the new man of his past boyfriends. Men are owners, and the mention of others, albeit of their former competitors, acts on them, like a red color on a bull in a Spanish bullfight. If you openly ask, you can say that it does not really matter, since they are all in the past. In the case of further questions about their number, delicately express a common sense that there were much fewer sex partners in your life than he had.
Never raise your voice on a man. The command tone is appropriate only in relations to subordinates, and not to a potential lover, so avoid verbs in your speech in an imperative mood. If you ask a man to do something for you - bring water, open the ventilator, etc. - do not forget to add the magic word "please", and also thank him for the rendered service.
Madly besyat men and frequent calls to girlfriends, long conversations with them on the phone during a date, powdering spout, etc. In this case, the man begins to feel unnecessary and uninteresting, and he has lost the desire to continue acquaintance.
The best behavior when acquainted with a man is a sincere interest in his person and friendly dialogue, excessive indifference here is useless: many men say that a slightly overlooking shyness in a woman is often perceived by them as an attractive and even sexually arousing trait, although being silent as an idol is also not necessary.
Pay attention to your position during the conversation - the orientation of the body body to the interlocutor is perceived as an interest, and disintegration - as a barbarity and presentation of superiority. A woman is usually more attractive to a partner when she sits in a calm posture with non-overlapping arms and legs. Intersections are an unconscious sign of nervousness and avoiding contact.
And finally, a few generalized tips on how to behave to women when meeting a man: position yourself as a loving and able woman to enjoy life (men do not like female sufferers and women victims), try to look as attractive as possible (a beautiful woman immediately raises a man in her own eyes), do not show your excessive desire to get married, have children and to arrange a personal life, do not gallop the development of your relationship, observe some inaccessibility (let the man conquer you), look erotic, but decently, watch your speech and gesticulation.