For parents, this period is also not easy. Both financially and emotionally. Costs for the first class are significant, because you have to buy everything, from books to shoes. Psychologically, parents also need to adjust to the school wave, it will not work out for their week-end holiday, if the kindergarten can be missed, then the school without reason should not be ignored. Since often one topic is considered one topic, and if you skip it, then the whole process can stop. Therefore, each of the adults also needs to realize that a new stage in their life has begun.
What does it mean for a first-grader school? Unfamiliar children, teachers and many classes, which from the first time nothing works. It's good when a child gets into a class where there are children with whom he went to the kindergarten, or a friend living in the neighborhood. But when a small frightened person falls into a completely unfamiliar situation, he is lost. At the very beginning the child needs support. Parents should encourage and praise their child, so that the desire to learn will not be lost. Teachers, support, if something is not clear to the child, patiently explain. In no case do not raise a child's voice, this can lead to the fact that the baby closes in itself and the desire to learn will disappear.
A good option for busy parents is the extended day group. Usually, after half an hour, if the child is not taken after the lessons, the student remains on the extension, although usually the parents agree on this in advance.
The positive factor in such a long stay in school, the performance of homework under the supervision of teachers, in case of not understanding a particular topic, the teacher will explain on the spot. After completing all the tasks, it is possible to play with your peers.
In the upper grades, there is already a selection for categories. A significant drawback of school education is the division among children according to their status and material possibilities. Probably, in this sense it was easier when there was a school uniform. Violence in the school became more frequent, and a brutal attitude was observed in both girls and boys.
What motivates teenagers? Why are young people so aggressive now? Probably, because now all TV channels broadcast modern aggressive movies and programs that promote the main values, money and power. And thus, adolescents are established in certain circles, gaining prestige among their friends.
Computer games are full of violence. They so plausibly depict blood and murder, that teenagers begin to confuse virtual life with the present. And they think that everything goes unpunished.
To avoid this, from the very beginning try to interest the child, write down on different circles and sections. Let him try and choose himself, do not impose his opinion at all, otherwise there will not be any sense. It is necessary for the child to choose the occupation on his own and to improve his skills in this area. Believe me, a child who is interested in something seriously, does not want to spend his knowledge and skills on trifles, like mockery of peers.
Give your children more time, often say that you love.