Free and sexy
A variety of sex with different partners without the desire to establish a strong relationship is characteristic of many young men and few women. A woman gets pleasure not only from sex, but also from a kind of exhibitionism - she does not hide her lovers, and from the obvious domination over them - it's so delicious to be aware of the strength of your body, your female, natural power over a man.
How to treat her women
Some are calm: "Its business!" And with curiosity: "Well, you must! Tell a lot! "Many people - disapprovingly, call a nymphomaniac, are accused of immorality or with insincere sympathy they say that she must be terribly alone and unhappy, survived a great mental trauma, seeks new lovers from anguish, because she does not know how to build strong relationships with men and soon or hang himself, or drown, or get cancer from sadness and personal unclaimedness. There are two reasons for women's enmity: envy and sincere bewilderment - "we have always been told that this is not allowed!" A little worm of envy to a sexually relaxed friend moves in the soul even those who are quite satisfied with their sex life: it realizes what they dream about, but can not afford, because they are bound by obligations with a constant partner. Strongly envious of her women, living or not having sex, or without joy in it. They say: "A sense of self-worth does not allow me to descend to disorderly connections." But its own dignity is nothing to do with it. They do not sleep with anyone, because they are extremely jaded with their complexes, they are afraid to be called "walking people", they wait for a great love to the grave, they do not know how to talk with men, and keep away from them. Or make such high demands on the intellect, manners and patience of a partner that a real man can not satisfy. And he does not approach them. All these ladies, instead of understanding their problems, prefer to condemn on the one who does not have these problems, but sex is. Perplexed and rejected by a similar style of sexual life are those women whose upbringing makes them consider it immoral. They want to feel extraordinarily sublime and pure natures, consider sex a "dirty business", which can only be justified by true feelings, and even then - not in all sexual positions. Particularly strongly resented by those who use sex as a lasso for retention and training men: if other women are sincere in their desire for sex, the husband will not want to live with the one that "gives" depending on his actions, but will find another who is always happy . Manipulation will become impossible. And they assure that having sex only for the sake of sexual satisfaction is wrong and disgusting. It is easier for them to condemn others than to honestly admit their commercialism. If you accept yourself, such as it is, the painful envy will be less, and the joy - more.
Estimation of the trend
In Larisa's behavior there is nothing immoral, and on no account can one find fault with it. Although you are stunned by resentment or bursting with indignation, but you can not call her a whore. Not a single unwritten law of the society violates it: a beloved man does not change because of his absence, money for sex and gifts does not require, for the sake of his career is not given. None of the men does not lie: honestly says: "I want" - "I do not want." Even in illegibility, you can not blame her: she values herself and carefully filters her partners.
Hereditary theory
For the power of sexual attraction in women and men, the hormone testosterone meets. In men, it is produced more, for women - less. He makes people not only sexually active, but also energetic, persistent and goal-oriented. Congenital hormonal background is very different. One woman calmly does without sex a year. Another one a month later climbs up to the wall and is ready to attack the first man to fall. Features of the hormone level, or more precisely - responsible for the power of the desire of testosterone - can be transmitted to the daughter, both through the passionate mom and the temperamental dad, the sex of the parent does not matter.
Theory of success
On top of success, you become sexier, and at the physiological level, and at the same time - more independent, risky and brave. Our body is reconstructed so that we can reach further heights. And if a woman is often told that she is beautiful-smart-strong-brave and admire her, then her sexuality will grow along with self-esteem. But keep in mind: no matter how much you work, sexuality will not increase, if the work does not apply admiration and approval of others, praise and reward.
Karmic Theory
We must, in each of our earthly incarnations, work out some aspect of human existence. And high sexuality is given in order that we have perfected the art of physical love, we ourselves enjoyed all its sides and learned to bring joy to others. Only when we completely fulfill love carnal, sexual, we manage to move to another stage - spiritual love. Therefore, sexuality can not be rejected. You just need to be able to manage it. Sometimes high sexuality is associated with some problem from the past that needs to be resolved. If you in the previous incarnation abandoned the carnal pleasures and neglected the wishes of the beloved man, in today's you get truly indomitable sexuality in order for you to feel what it is when there is not enough sex and correct your mistake.
Astrological theory
According to astrologers, our need for sex is greatly influenced by the location of the stars at birth - especially Venus, Mars, the Sun and the Moon. Of the signs of the zodiac, the most sexually insatiable are the Scorpions and Aries. Learn all about yourself in sex can be on an individual horoscope, compiled by the hour and date of birth.
The Wiccan theory
All women are created for love. Throughout life, a woman should love many men, because they are inspired by our love and draw from it energy for work, poetry, music and all kinds of creativity. We love men in different ways. Some women are endowed with the ability to love and transmit energy on a spiritual level. They fall in love, but in sex are reserved, often chaste, and inspire men to intellectual creativity. Some women transmit power through fleshly passion to men. They are very sexy and give the man emotional emancipation, the ability to openly express his feelings. Both are equally delightful and should not restrain themselves in anything and force them to nothing. And then everyone will be happy - both women and men.
Male separately, sex separately
Oksana turned into a "supersexual" woman thanks to her husband. No, he did not study the Tao of love and did not disclose the flower of her sexuality by heroic efforts in the field of tantric sex. He just sent his lawful wife to Germany to earn money for the family as a manager of a private hotel. His small company selling window glass panes burned out, and Oksana, a quiet, submissive and meek teacher of the German language, had to save her husband, daughter of ten, and her mother-in-law. Thanks to her diligence and practicality, the hotel began to bring more profit to the owner. A year later Oksana started a young lover - the son of the owner. And I discovered the pleasures of sex. With her husband for fifteen years of marriage she had three orgasms. Each act was accompanied with the lover of orgasm. Why? In her husband was too little man, and her feminine essence in sex did not react to him. And the lover, a lively and strong guy who moved in bed with the energy of a rabbit on batteries, still reacted! After a year and a half, Oksana returned to Riga, because she still cherished the family. With the filing of a German friend got a good job. And put her husband before the fact: twice a year for a month she leaves Latvia and meets her lover. My husband accepted the fact. In the interim, Oksana makes up for the lack of sex with colleagues in the Finnish bathhouse or at the refresher courses. She does not feel any remorse and is satisfied with everything. Advantages of her position: she does not need to lie. Men think: "Well, her husband's moron - he sent his wife to earn money, gave her the wheel in his hands. And now - that's what he needs! She would not leave me - I'm a real man! "And women think:" She avenges her husband for not acting like a man. " And they also justify it. For all, it matters that Oksana does not want to leave her husband, because in his own way he loves. Cons: a husband can rebel and stop such a pleasant alliance.
The higher the status, the more sex
That is necessary for realization of an erotic trend "free and sexual". Financial independence, attractive and well-groomed appearance, evoking desire, and self-confidence, in order to calmly tolerate the refusals of men to whom they are entitled. We believe that such a type of women, behaving like men in sex, only appeared in our days. And we explain his appearance by emancipation, which makes it possible not to depend on the man's purse, and the invention of contraceptive pills that preclude accidental pregnancy. In fact, sexually uninhibited and passionate women have always been. True, they met in the highest strata of society, on the heights of power and glory, where success prevailed and it was possible not to think about what to live and how to feed children. I recollect reminiscent of Catherine the Great, Sarah Bernhard, Golda Meir, Madeleine Albright. And so far, to show their sexuality freely and for one hundred percent, a woman is required to become, if not a queen, at least a businesswoman, boss or proprietress and achieve some social success. Everyone should see that a woman takes to her bed men not for money and not for exaltation in society. And then men will seek it, women will respect, and no one, even with anger, will call it a whore. Is it offensive? May be. But it works.
Who - for the mind, whom - for the beauty
High female sexuality is an insistent need for regular sex and the ability to receive great pleasure from it. And, in what way we are quenching our need - this is our own business. We want - we choose smart partners. Want - impressively equipped below the belt. We want - we change lovers every Thursday. We want - we remain faithful to our husband or friend. I remember how curious statistics struck me a few years ago: most often they have sex and are least likely to change their husbands with passionate Italians. Why? Because in their husbands they have no less passionate Italians. If in bed a woman with high sexual appetites has a temperamental, multifunctional inventive man - she is able to manage one partner and lead an outwardly modest, but in quality and variety of erotic pleasures - a luxurious and depraved lifestyle.