Most of us try to diversify our sex life. But what can be done if all known positions have already been checked, there is not time to study new ones at all, but you do not really like radical innovations? The best way to refresh the relationship is to let your man imagine himself in a new way. Men just love role-playing games in bed for two. It's worth checking out.
There is no need to blush, deny or say that this is trivial - it does not bother anyone, but you can only be hindered. Go to the sex shop and look at the huge assortment of costumes they offer - from an innocent schoolgirl to a fatal female vamp. Why, what do you think? Because demand creates supply. So offer your loved one what he wants. Next, we'll talk about what sex roles men prefer and why.
1. A student or student
Do not blame your loved one for pedophilia. Remember, these are just role games, and not the real life situation. The fact is that when boys become teenagers, hormones begin to rage in their bodies. At the same time, the girls are not yet fully "ripe" for constructive relations with their peers. Nature played with them quite a cruel joke. Their sexual organs develop much faster than psychological data. They feel the need for sex without the desire to look after, without romantic experiences and sensations. Subsequently, when a man is already reaching maturity, he subconsciously wants to fill a gap in terms of a romantic relationship with a teenage girl.
Another reason for wanting to see your partner in this role may be nostalgia for those times when everything was just beginning. When you were nice, elegant and naive, and in a way resembled a girl.
2. A governess or teacher
Have you ever wondered why in almost every third erotic porn movie, women are shown in the image of a sexy and seductive teacher? Everything still boils down to psychology. A young teacher is often the object of the first school love of a young boy. Most often, it is hidden and platonic. In addition, sometimes a man wants to engage in rough sex with the teacher, which is a kind of revenge for the bad grades that she put to him. But this happens less often. Arrange a sexual "school" in bed for two and you will get an earlier pleasure.
3. Business woman or woman-vamp
It may be a little strange that such an apparently untouchable woman, sometimes even a feminist, is so desirable in the male fantasy. Why is this happening? It's simple. A man by nature - a hunter. And he also perceives a woman as a prey. The more difficult the extraction is, the more desirable it is. After all, you will agree, what interest is there in shooting ducks who do not even try to fly away? So a woman is strong, domineering, inaccessible, which needs to be conquered, curbed and will be the best trophy for a man.
Some psychologists believe that this fantasy is often found among male losers. Those who have not achieved anything in real life, try to be the winner in their thoughts and dream about having sex with a female vamp. But it is not always the case. In any case, it's worth trying to turn into a fatal beauty in bed. Sex will be amazing.
4. Secretary or employee
Men love to command women - both in life and at work. And often this includes dominance in sex. It is very important for a man to keep his ambitions and force a woman to do what he most wants in sex.
When a man chooses a woman - a subordinate or a secretary, he takes into account not only her professional qualities. And sometimes he does not even pay attention to them. So silly jokes about secretaries and bosses often have more realistic grounds. But there is one drawback - not always the boss has the opportunity to sleep with his employee. After all, not everyone is ready to do "this" for a salary or a bonus. There are proud women who are not capable of this. But fantasies in the male head are still present, and he will not mind to lose this scene with his wife. Such role-playing games are the most common and most exciting for men.
5. Nurse or doctor
One of the dance numbers required for strip clubs is a sexy nurse in a short apron. This costume can be bought in any sex shop. Have you ever wondered how such a fantasy arises? Why does your partner want to see you in this role?
Hospital staff are often associated with pain. That's why a person wants to see the opposite image of doctors. In such fantasies, a nurse says: "Take your clothes off!" Not for painful injections, but to give a man pleasure. There are many ways to play doctor and patient. For example, the sexiest image is the image of a female dentist. Let your man sit in a chair, and you examine his mouth, touching his chest with his chest. And suddenly you get hot and you start slowly unbuttoning the blouse, continuing the examination. Well, develop a further scenario yourself. In any case, your man will be crazy about you.
6. The stewardess
It is not known whether studies were ever conducted on the topic: "What percentage of men flying on an airplane dream of dreams of flight attendants". It is hardly known the exact number of men who have been visited by such fantasies. But we only know that there are many such men. A lot, judging by the constant presence of the flight attendant in sex shops. And it's not surprising. Nevertheless, sexual forms, slender legs and sweet smiles of charming girls who walk gracefully over the cabin of the aircraft, ready to happily satisfy any wishes - a dream of many men. And this willingness to fulfill all the requirements (of course, within the limits of one's powers) can not but cause sexual fantasies.
7. The Waitress
In psychology, the desire of a man to have a woman in the form of a waitress is completely analogous with the image of the stewardess. Judge for yourself - a sweet smile, short skirts, tight shirts, often accompanied by a deep neckline. And all this in addition to the desire to be useful and satisfy all wishes. Well, what kind of man will resist the desire to be at least once with such a woman?
If a woman offers a man to do everything he wants (in this case - what he will order), then it automatically becomes for him the most desired. Appearance here is also important. But not critical. In the case of the waitress of passion, he adds that the man is often in a not quite sober state, communicating with her. You can become desirable for your man as a waitress without resorting to drinking. Although, a romantic glass of good wine and not a hindrance.
8. The maid
Probably, many of you have seen the movie "Mrs. Maid" with Jennifer Lopez in the title role. Of course, most men dream of such maids in luxury hotels, and not about elderly aunts in a socialist hotel, more like a hostel.
The desire to have sex with a maid can be explained, as in the case of a secretary. Because the maid is a servant, guided by the motto "the customer is always right". She fulfills the requirements of the man without question, she works to please. The truth sometimes, when a man sees how she vacuums under the bed, the fantasy quickly disappears. In other words, men love it when a woman does something according to his instructions. But to do this she should be beautiful and sexy. If you want to use the role of a maid in your role-playing games in bed for two, do not resort to wiping dust or washing dishes. You can just bring drinks to a man "in the room" or change his bedding.
9. A slave or a concubine
This is something similar to the images of a secretary, maid, waitress or stewardess. Only, while in other cases, women are happy to fulfill the wishes of the client, here she simply has no choice.
In this role, a woman is usually bound or chained. In sex shops special furs are sold, with the help of which you can chained your "slave" to the bed. She first resists, and then obediently fulfills all the requirements of her "master."
Not always a man who owns such a fantasy - a sadist and a tyrant. He's just a man, he's a strong sex, and a woman in his understanding is weak, subordinate to his will. If not voluntarily, then forcibly. It's just role-playing games - you should not drip in psychology very deeply. Relax and have fun.
10. The Angel
Yes, there is such an image in sexual games for two. It is connected with the theory of the "forbidden fruit". An angel is an immaculate, pure being that has nothing to do with sex. Therefore, the desire to do something forbidden is always somewhere in the depths of every man's being. In sex of this kind there will be no violence and rudeness. A man will seduce an angel gently and with a feeling, will enjoy the intimacy with him, that is, in this case, with you.
In a nutshell, it's not at all difficult to bring variety to your sex life. You just need to let go of your fantasies and discard the embarrassment. Be the first to offer a man to experience something new in sex. He will appreciate your courage and your pleasure in bed will have no boundaries.