How to behave to parents in the first months of a baby's life?

At last he was born. You have been waiting for him to be born for so long, and now you are looking at your long-awaited baby. Remember from now on you become the center of the universe for him.

Through their parents, a little person learns the world around them. Despite the fact that the child is still a baby, it is already able to develop rapidly. The fact that he spends most of his time in a dream is not an excuse to refuse to communicate with him.

To understand how to behave to parents in the first months of a baby's life, you need to rely on your intuition and parental instinct.

Many parents may think that the child is still very tiny and does not understand anything, but right now it is necessary to establish contact with your baby. When a child does not sleep with him it is necessary to play, smile at him, speak sweet words, although he does not understand them, but understands the intonation of the voice with which they are spoken. You can make the child a special massage, which is for him a physical exercise. By the way, thanks to the massage, the children develop the intellect, the nervous system. It is necessary to carry the child in his arms, this method allows you to establish close contact between the parents and their baby - that's all you need to contact the baby in the first months of life.

In the first months of a baby's life, parents play an important role, they not only feed, bathe, but also love. And love for a child of any age is the main thing.

It must be said that without the participation of adults in the development of the child, nothing interesting to him, not even the brightest toys that you throw to him, so that he plays with them and does not distract your everyday worries from you. Parents need to postpone all their affairs and teach the child, interest him, take a toy and show how to play with it, it means playing along with the baby and then after a while parents will see how the child himself, according to their living example, already plays with the toy. Using the toy as an example, we see that the child copies all our actions, the model of behavior in society and from us parents, depending on which personality will grow from our child.

To educate the individual parents should remember a few rules of conduct with their children.

The most important rule, according to psychologists, can be expressed in one sentence - never under any circumstances, dear parents do not get irritated, because the consequences of your irritation can become irreversible, the first thing that may arise is neurosis, then the child can become whimsical and whiny, he may have a sleep disorder.

The second rule can be expressed as follows: parents never find out the relationship with each other with the help of screaming at the child - it can scare him and settle in his subconscious. The child grows nervous, he is afraid

noise - this is the consequences of parental scandals. In the first months of a baby's life, it is very important to create a quiet and friendly home, without screaming, hysterics, scandals.

The third rule is love, mutual understanding and respect between parents if all this is present in your family, then the child will be fine too - he will grow in a harmonious environment and will grow self-sufficient personality.

Parental relationships, habits and everything else is an example for imitation and if your child has problems with behavior, blame only themselves, change attitudes towards life and of course to your child. After all, children are not only our joy, but also a great responsibility, as well as our reflection in the mirror.

Parents, starting from the very first months after the birth of the baby, should bring him up so that the child grows confident and confident that his parents will always support.