Everything suddenly becomes not so, everything in you does not suit, there are so many shortcomings in you and you simply do not consider yourself beautiful. There were all kinds of stereotypes, you need to lose weight, you need to change the color of your hair, then your nose is big or your ears, well, the mass of all. You certainly need to change your appearance. This phenomenon can arise not only because of a young age, but also simply because of complexes and insecurities. The reasons can be very, very much, but mostly everything falls on the exterior.
But all these reasons and ridiculous "excuses" - this is the fruit of your imagination. Have you ever wondered why many not very attractive girls, women become wives sometimes even the most attractive and promising men ?! The man primarily chooses the girl with whom he will be comfortable, calm, interesting to live, and just love and receive in return a lot of attention and care.
The beautiful words of one famous actress, fully confirming what was said above, that any decent man will turn his attention to the lady who is interested in them, rather than the girl who has only beautiful legs. That is, even if you are a beautiful person and you have nothing but beauty outside, this is not an indicator of success.
What does "beautiful appearance" mean?
Even the ancient Greeks tried to identify the true priorities called "beautiful appearance." For today, the words of the artist of the Renaissance, Albrecht Durer, would have seemed to us humor. He once discovered a system of the standard of beauty, according to which it was believed that such parts of the face as the nose and ears should have an equal value, and the length between the eyes - one and a half times less than the size of the lips.
In different epochs of time there were different standards and norms of beauty. It could be very "magnificent" ladies, and ladies in corsets, which sometimes tightened so much that they fell into fainting. The proletariat had its own ideals and norms of attractiveness, they were women with very "perceptible" forms of convexity. Society always has its own opinion about true beauty, and it is never unambiguous.
Men also singled out among many women the ideal, the standard, which corresponded only to its taste and preference. Any person will have exactly that feature, irreverence, that will not be equated with the words "how to change appearance, if I'm not beautiful". And there is always a feature, a manner, a feature that can simply alienate a man and not necessarily the cause of that will be the appearance. After all, there are absolutely perfectly beautiful and almost not beautiful people in the world.
Yes, there is also an opinion that says that the exterior has a basic role in the device for the workplace, it is mainly those works where the first factor in taking on the workplace is a beautiful appearance: models, secretaries, personal assistants, presenter and t etc. And it is understandable why many girls so desire to change the appearance, somewhere to remove the visible and completely removable flaws of the person, and sometimes even resort to surgery to change any part of their body. But do not think that all managers are fixated only on the external beautiful appearance, in the main, the main requirement will be professional skills.
According to some tests that were conducted with attractive people who do not consider themselves as such. Interesting results were obtained, which stated that the former had decided not better than the latter. But in turn, the first of them were the most confident in comparison with the second, which is the most attractive for employers. It follows from this conclusion that you need to be just confident in yourself, and not just in your beauty!
And you knew that there is such a World Association of people who consider themselves ugly. There are now more than 25 thousand people who call themselves "monsters" and all of them from all over the world. It is located in the Italian city of Pibicco, which is headed by the 68-year-old Telesforo Jacobelli.
Back in ancient times, there was a legend about the 128 old virgins who considered themselves "urodynes", because of what they could not find their husbands. It was for them that they opened a so-called marriage agency, which helped them to improve their lives.
How many in this association at the moment known and unknown men and women. What is interesting about it is already 4 "MISS ITALY" !!! Also here you can meet actors, journalists, politicians, writers and many, many others.
In the same city an interesting monument was erected, dedicated to all those who consider themselves ugly people, in the form of a "handsome man," in whose hands a mirror. According to Telesforo, he lets people know that beauty should be sought not from the outside, but within himself.
Be confident in your irresistibility!
But everything is not so tragic as these people have with the association. Many simply do not see "farther than a meter" from their so-called nekrasota and try their best to change the ugly appearance to a beautiful one.
Maybe you just need to change your image, just change your clothes and makeup, your hair. It's just become stylish, elegant and elegant. Here simple and unassuming rules, the main thing is that the clothes were strictly your size, the hairstyle is picked up on the face oval, and the make-up corresponds to the time of day (daytime, evening), and according to the type of hair (for brunettes, blondes, brown-haired their preferred shades of cosmetics). Do not be afraid to resort to help from strangers, but rather to specialists in their field. Whether it's a stylist, a hairdresser or a make-up artist, and so on.
But the most dynamic factor that will help make you beautiful, is undoubtedly self-confidence. Get rid of all kinds of complexes and stereotypes. After all, if you are sure that a man can not fail to pay attention to you, then this is sure and certainly will be so!
And then all the doors and opportunities will become yours!