The character of an iron lady, as a rule, has been formed since childhood. Such ladies are first of all leaders in everything. A strong woman is always capable of making responsible decisions on her own, finding a way out of any difficult situation or problem, being responsible for her actions and no matter how bad it is in her soul, always go through life with her head held high. By the way, these women are almost always able to succeed in everything. What can you not say about their personal life, where most often such a woman is lonely, and her relationship with a strong sex is doomed to fail. All this is due to the fact that such ladies are very demanding. It also repels from them not only potential suitors, but even close friends. But, nevertheless, despite everything, a strong woman has long been accustomed to perform strong physical work and is much less likely to wear feminine shoes on a hairpin. In a word, a modern woman can also stop riding at a gallop and enter the burning hut ... So the men have already given the man a head start, but as regards weaknesses of a strong woman, they still make themselves felt.
Life beliefs of a strong woman.
Very often strong women in all their close environment, and not only close, absolutely do not see examples for themselves to follow. Most likely, this is due to the fact that on the whole life path and the formation of the personality of the "Iron Lady", nobody simply stopped it, but even pushed it to the leadership, starting from the creches themselves. That's why such a woman was realized in all spheres of life and does not see herself equal at all. And no one has the right to put obstacles on the way to its perfection. That's why the strong spirit of the woman and formed the life principle, that she is an example for imitation and so on. But this all brings in her own corrections to her life, she just has to live within her own rules, which she herself has no right to violate.
Try on the image of a man.
Often, trying on a man's image, with all the masculine qualities, a woman does not notice that she is becoming feminine. Among other things, these women look at men with very different eyes, at a subconscious level perceiving them as "weak." For this reason, the strongest lady in the first place in life is a career, complete freedom and independence. Of course, this does not deprive the female nature of the desire to feel a strong male shoulder next to it, but to touch this weakness means to feel a competitor next to you, that is, a man. After all, a strong woman all her life was fighting to prove to men all their independence and strength. That's why, trying on these masculine qualities, a woman is afraid of losing her independence.
A man for a strong woman.
A man is, as a rule, a strong-willed, purposeful and brave knight on a white horse. It is this image that a single-minded woman wants to see in a strong field, but at the same time she is frightened off by the idea that such a boyfriend will be stronger than herself. Therefore, such ladies, more often than not, choose the exact opposite of such men. By the way, this choice of the lady does not always help her feel happy, but the queen, so it's please.
Weaknesses of a strong lady.
Weak men, however paradoxical it may sound, like a magnet attracted to such women. So we have to choose from what we have. By the way, with such a man a woman becomes a real domestic tyrant, which eventually leads to a complete break in relations and even misunderstanding and criticism from the children. This is primarily due to the fact that any power person is characterized by reincarnation in the general (in our case in a skirt), and generals very often meet old age in complete solitude.
Mistakes in the life of a strong woman.
The main mistake of an iron lady is that she is not able to give a discount even to herself. For example, why on a day off, when time allows, to sleep before lunch or leave for the night not washed dishes with a non-ironed suit ... Such a lady, above all, responsible and correct. These are all trifles, but nevertheless, this all very strongly affects the people around her.
Plus, all the weaknesses of a strong lady are reduced to her constant desire to compete with a strong sex, and the same "iron ladies" as herself.
The last is the education of children. Such a mother is able to completely suppress all the independence of the child with their constant advice and examples from life.
How not to become a "monster in a skirt"?
First of all, it is necessary to understand for yourself that you are not what you want to appear in reality. Change your life priorities and values. Do not seek to do their work for all, especially for men. This all helps you to feel yourself not a "working machine", but just a real woman.
At work, do not try to take everything upon yourself, stay a little weak and accept the help of your colleagues. It will certainly attract to you people and worthy men.
And lastly, it's enough to try on the mask of a man, otherwise sooner or later you will finally become fully integrated and lose all your femininity and sexuality. Look at yourself with completely different eyes. And for the best effect, every morning, in front of the mirror, imagine yourself a real sexy and vulnerable woman. This will certainly help you feel much more comfortable with men. Remember that the strength of a woman in her weakness, and the mask of a "stone lady" only dooms him to utter loneliness. And in general, eternal rivalry with men will never give you the opportunity to feel the whole harmony of a happy family life. Remember that a strong woman can always afford to show slack and this is not punishable by law!