They say that girls from a good family should not meet with dubious men, but it is also known that the opposites are attracted.
He was a womanizer - now he does not like the soul in his wife and children, he beat the buckets and did nothing - for a couple of years of family life he not only settled down, but also made a successful career.
Men with whom it is difficult to get along and impossible to change are called in different ways: "bad type", "stubborn nature" is not an easy person, in general. But in everyday life it can manifest itself as you like. The spectrum is the widest - from the brawler and the grouch to the silent and "beeches." Someone used to express their feelings and communicate expressively, someone more suited quiet happiness. What, in fact, is this "heavy character"? What should be considered quite acceptable features, and what are the terrible shortcomings, the reconciliation with which you have yet to learn? It is not possible to designate more or less clear criteria. But all are generous with wise advice like "be smarter - keep silent" and "if you love, bear it"
The reasons for combating men's shortcomings we always have plenty. But there is among them the most significant. Most of us think: if a man changes, all difficulties disappear, problems disappear, and life becomes much more pleasant. Is it really? Learn to help a simple test. To list all its minuses for you, most likely, will not be difficult. Try to make exactly the same list of its merits. After all, in order to love a man the way he is, it is very important just to remind himself - what he is.