Before you take concrete actions, you need to understand yourself. Is it true that love has passed? Will not you regret it later? If you decide to do everything correctly and find understandable arguments will be much easier. In any case, you will not make this process painless, but at least you will be able to explain the reason why a person does not torment himself with an endless "why".
How does a guy say "Goodbye"?
We have collected several recommendations that will help you make parting soft and painless, exactly as much as possible.
How to write a farewell letter to a guy, read here .
Do not be fooled
If you fall out of love, you should not stay close to a person who loves you only out of sympathy or in the hope that you can push him to a break. This behavior will cause much more pain than the process of parting. Also, you should not invent different stories: treason, deception, etc. Thus, you simply become an enemy, besides, it will be harder for him to learn to trust people again. If you fall out of love better not to complicate things and just say, as is: "I do not like". Feelings pass, it happens, and it does not say that your partner is a bad person.
Do not betray
Even if the feelings are gone, and you are planning to part with the person, do not dedicate it to everyone around, especially if your partner does not yet know about it. Maybe you need a friend's advice, but try to make sure that this person is a very reliable person who will never let you know. Do not take dirty linen out of your hut and try to solve your problems together, without involving third parties.
Choose the right place
It is best to report this news in a public place so that your man behaves self-controlled, at the same time, this place should be quite intimate for such a conversation. You still need to talk and, preferably, so that no one disturbs you. Ideal for a park or a cozy cafe. The truth is, try not to make the place misleading, that is, it was not too romantic.
Do not go into details
Of course, you will have to explain your decision, but do not lay out everything completely. It can injure or induce resentment, a dispute. What do you want it for? Love has passed and everything, it is not necessary to go into details. Everything has already been decided, it remains only to disperse on different roads. Try not to blame. Best of all fit the phrase: "I changed," "I realized that I want something else." Do not say that it irritates you, it's better to say that you regret it, but you can not do it any other way.
Of course, even if you do everything the way we recommend, it will not be easy. But if you are sure that you have fully understood your feelings, do not delay, so you only worsen the situation. Telling the guy "good-bye" will be much easier if you are, first of all, honest with yourself and open with him.