Love and sex - the guarantee of pleasure

Men are not born ideal lovers, they become thanks to women. We'll show you how to become his sex teacher and wake him up in virtuoso sex. Love and sex are the guarantee of pleasure and everyone should know this.

In all to blame for fairy tales!
In fairy tales there is always a beautiful prince who knows how to wake a princess and how to give her pleasure. And most awakened from a dream princesses think that a real man simply must be an ideal lover, and he knows exactly how to fulfill all our dreams. But in reality, everything is not so rosy: as a rule, the prince does not like sudden movements, he is satisfied with the standard set of caresses and poses, and his fantasies are extremely primitive. Do not get mad. How does he know what women want? All his baggage of knowledge - the combined experience of personal observation and viewing pornographic films. With his friends, he still does not talk on this topic, and his ex-only said that he spoils everything. Well, to buy a guide book means to admit that he has no idea how to do this. Agree, it's not an easy step, especially for a man. And then he meets you, and fate gives him a chance: after all a man can become a good lover only with that woman who will save him from sexual failures. Only with a woman can he learn about a woman. His best teacher will be the one who will wake up the hidden qualities of a real lover: YOU! Now you will learn about the five most common reasons for his failures and how to eliminate their consequences.


Do you want me?

Lesson Problem

Your lover is behaving indecisively, is engaged with you with love and sex - a pledge of pleasure is not so often and not as passionately as you would like, and the variety in bed is not striking.

Cause

During the "marriage games" the partners' roles are distributed according to the primitive principle (although in "Sex in the Big City" things are different). Usually a man sets himself the task of "dissolving" a woman, and she, on the contrary, does not want to give up quickly so as not to be "like everyone else". Therefore, he does not take decisive action, because he is not confident in himself and is simply afraid to be rejected.

Decision

All that this man needs is to become desirable. If he feels that the woman wants him, then he does not lose interest in her. His hunting instinct is awakened, and then he is ready to fly like a rocket! A woman's desire is a spark, thanks to which a man's flame flares up.


Do not wait for the right moment - create it

When will the right moment come for love and sex - a pledge of pleasure? Right now! Bring your lover out of a sleepy state - undress him right on the landing when he just walked to the door, or, sitting in a crowded bar, whisper hotly in his ear: "Take me! Immediately! "Nothing fascinates a man so much as an unexpected passionate desire of a woman.


Think like a man

In such expressions as "I want sex" or "Undress me and drag me to bed", we hear the order, and the man is an invitation, which he was waiting with impatience.


Be a bad girl

If your lover got into an embarrassing situation, then he dares to apply, just the basics of his sexual experience. Remove the tension, immediately standing in a new pose, put a mouth on his penis condom or caress him under the shower. Such an initiative will first surprise him, and then inspire feats!


Take "him" in your hands

Take the excited lover to the bedroom, take his dignity in his hand and put it into the vagina. For him, this exciting confirmation that you want him as a man. After all, even the most intelligent and attractive men depend on such small confessions of their sexuality.

More active! Take the forefront. For example, let him put his back against the wall, and you kneel before him, put your hands between his hips and, taking his hands, hold them near his priests, while you do him fellatio. He learns to understand that you are excited, giving him pleasure.


Admit it is gorgeous

And not words, but actions. Only 15% of men consider themselves attractive enough in the nude. Words can not help much here, but with touches, yes. After all, the skin has the ability to erotic memories. The one who is often caressed, has an adequate self-esteem, is less inclined to depression and rarely gets sick. Caressing him, imagine that his body is a giant penis, let him feel that you like him. Every day he will be more and more bold.

Problem

Your lover strikes with his constancy: first he kisses you in the neck, then he pulls your nipple and, before you finish, stimulates your clitoris. This is terribly predictable.

And you do not have enough variety, sensuality, exceeding the limits of the permissible. He does not even understand why you are unhappy, because, despite the monotony, you get an orgasm anyway ...


Cause

Your orgasm is the main goal of a man. And to give you pleasure, he resorts to proven methods. For a woman, the goal is the process itself, the very path to orgasm. This leads the man into confusion. His dependence on your orgasm prevents him from experimenting: putting you on a dining table, strewn with candles, or playing with you in blind man's buffoons, while you are caressing his cock with your mouth. For him, emotional satisfaction from the process is too controversial.

Decision

It is very important to correctly find the middle between the initiative and the freedom to convince him that experiments are pleasant and without orgasm: give him the opportunity to surprise you. This is necessary for his EGO.


More Risk

Even the wisest women have fun and know how to behave with a man, only having spent with him 5-10 field tests. Will you continue to adhere to the old rules or, finally, try something new? Take the risk of doing something like this, for example, massage his penis under the table, make love under opera music, guess where in your erotic games follow the motto "in one place only once". Once in the landing, the other in the car, the third in the hotel, in the meadow, in the pantry ... The further you move away from the bed, the more interesting new options will be born in the head of your beloved put on socks a la Lolita, or call him a "crappy boy".


Get to know him better.

According to the research, 50% of erotic fantasies of partners are not carried out by their second half. So for now only half of his desires are available to you!

Only truth

Do not pretend that you like everything just to not offend him. Most men are very grateful when a woman says that they are not! Manage his hand, help him with words. This has its plus: your instructions tear off the whole plan of his actions and encourage you to fulfill everything you ask for, ideally.


Reward for Heroes

Now it's your turn. Ask him to control your hand. Doing fellatio, ask him what he wants: that you tightly grasp his penis with his lips and move quickly or, maybe, just gently slip on his penis. Takts create an atmosphere in which you can gently correct mistakes of each other and learn something new.


Gaps in knowledge

In an insecure man everything goes wrong. It feels like he does not know what to do. Sometimes he has cute questions like "Did you come?". And when he finished, you can not continue. Among the insecure lovers there are three types of men: the first is limited to love and sex - the deposit of pleasure is only the genitals, the second stimulates the clitoris, as if tuning the radio, and the third does cunnilingus only to excite you more quickly.

A woman's body for an insecure man is a mystery behind seven seals. He does not believe in stereotypes and does not trust his feelings and observations. In his head is the image of an ideal lover with an endless erection. This is how he tries to become, not listening to his or her needs. In general, it is not so hopeless!

The stop signal of this type of man is too fast in bed. Do not rush, cowboy! And you help him slow down: "Let me make you a blowjob? Maybe I'm on top? Can I curse? "So he, being at the peak of excitement, will understand that long sex can be a lot of fun.


Decision

If you teach a lesson to a few lessons, it can be a useful experience for him. Help him get rid of the fixated on the erection and explain that he should (simply obliged!) Make every effort and do everything possible to make it the best sex in his life! Let him use all the means that are in his arsenal - his voice, fingers, knees (yes, it's the knees! You can passionately rub against them when he presses against your pubic hair).


Final exams

At one time, the film "Graduate" Mike Nichols made a lot of noise. But it is thanks to him that you can successfully transfer the experience of screen relations between Mrs. Robinson and 21-year-old Ben Bradock into reality. Do not be ashamed to see and feel in the role of sex instructor, because in the end every second man dreams of being a desired student. True, you must take into account one thing: do not build communication like: "I'll teach you how to do, stupid." Beat this moment, meaning teamwork and experiences concerning the two of you: "Let's try ... Maybe we'll like it ... I wonder how we will if we ..."


Operating principle

Trust your body, not the inner voice that whispers: "Maybe he will change the pose ... Maybe not so quickly ..." Manage his hands. Show him that you want to feel his hands on his buttocks, breasts, and his thumb in his mouth. But if you want to push his legs apart, just push them to your hips.


Teach him

Read to him aloud erotic stories or encyclopedia of sex (or leave the book in the toilet - where men read most often). Look together an erotic film, for example, "Secretary" Stephen Sheinberg or "Henry and June" Philip Kaufman. Do not be shy to ask him to find in Google an unfamiliar concept of sex, if your computer suddenly hangs ...


Body-toy

Help your man get rid of the idea that his penis is the center of the universe. Tris about his body, press his pubic to his hands, hips, buttocks (you can first rub them with oil), and do it so that your clitoris trembles with excitement. And after he makes cunnilingus to you, rub it against his chest.


It will be easy!

Combine bold games and laughter. If you meet your "student" in stockings and corset,

and even with an indecent expression on his face, he will be afraid that you expect him to take certain actions. He will get a role, the text of which, unfortunately, he does not know. Smile! And he will understand that it's you, his girl. There are no clear roles. It's just a game!


Respond!

He wants to offer you more than just "child sex". What to do: to besiege it with words, groans, movements or keep emotions to yourself? If a man hears and feels that he is doing everything right, his self-esteem is growing. So do not hold back. But know that the most erotic thing that men want to hear is simply "Yes!", Especially during penetration.


Problem

At first glance, everything is just fine. He is caring and helpful: "Is it convenient for you?", "Are you feeling well?". But there is one thing: from excessive concentration, his erection disappears. And if you suddenly intercept the initiative, he will interrupt you, because he does not like being commanded, and when choosing the postures he is guided by the dominant role of the man. He is very tense and restless.

During sex, his head buzzes with thoughts that overfill him: "Are you good for her?", "Am I too harsh?" Is the lighting suitable? "" Oh, she was breathing, maybe I finished too early? ". Such men are worried about themselves, for women and for the whole world. Sex for him is limited to the active role of men, and your initiative is not even considered.


Decision

All the fault is a sense of responsibility. Attempts to change it are absolutely meaningless. But in your power to give the "troubled manager" a sense of ease during making love. For this you need to come up with a cunning one; strategy, so that he does not suspect that you are the initiator and guide all; his actions ...


Ladies First

Your "manager" begins to worry before you appear on the horizon, painfully pondering how everything will be. Help him to relieve tension. For example, ask to bring you to orgasm with your finger, mouth, a new violet vibrator that you can not use yourself. (Solve him! He likes you to please!) So he will less worry and calmly be able to achieve orgasm.


Debriefing

Tell him about what you particularly liked. What he did very well. Add what a pleasure you got when he finished. When he gave his body to your hands. When he groaned. This so-called "NLP" will give him the code: "I finish - she is happy - I will end more often to make her happy." Result: my beloved got a discharge.


That's an order

Let him know that you will enjoy the fact that he is discharged: tell him, for example, that you want to feel his semen on the breast and as soon as possible! He will kneel, and you will fold both hands. What will your persistence lead to? He will simply learn to please you, not interfering with his own.


Assistant syndrome

When you do a blowjob, ask him to help you with a sexy voice and put a dick in his hand. When you sit on it, sit down so that your clitoris rubs against his pubic bone.

You whisper to him: "You will not help me?" And put his hands on his buttocks, so that he could help you. "You will not help me?" - you ask, when he kneels between your legs, and you take his erect penis and stimulate the head with circular motions of the clitoris. So he feels like he is always in an active position, although in fact, you are active. This distracting maneuver ensures the activity of both partners and does not strain equality in bed.


Tender, more gentle

Tell him about your desires, but do not be rude. For example, say: "I want to make love in the bath with you" instead of "I want to just fuck in the bath once." Or "tie my hands together." I want to feel how slowly you love me. " This personalized attitude flattered him, and he immediately understand what is required of him.


Pervert?!

On your questions about his erotic fantasies, he does not respond or answers evasively. When you are wondering which posture he likes best, or whether he likes it when you kiss him so, he says: "Well, do not tell everything about everything!" It seems your beloved activist of the movement for right sex. Or maybe he just shy? And despite strong love, you are afraid that in the future you will not experience with him something more powerful and profound.

Do not be afraid. He is just worried about the same question as 98% of the whole of humanity: "I will be normal if ..." Anyway, what will follow after "if" ("If I ask her to wear shorts from latex", "If I I want to try anal sex "or" If I imagine that we are engaged in group sex "), - a partner's concern about being considered a pervert, abnormal or compulsive, makes him hide his sexual desires. This "non-disclosure agreement" is based on reciprocity: if one does not say anything, then the other does not say anything at all!

Every person has a lot of passionate erotic desires. Do not believe a single word of it, since he does not want to speak frankly. But do not bother him with questions - for "silent" talk about sex is intolerable: how can he explain to you that he is being overwhelmed by unreasonable desires? Only if you tell about your people and you do not insist on his answer. Your confessions will make him break the vow of silence.


Will we talk?

Look at erotic films, show him this appendix to the April JOY, leaf through the photo albums of sexual content. Follow his reaction, comments. So you will exchange opinions on topics that do not directly affect your relationship, and, therefore, are safe for men.

Who does not want to hear, must feel

Devote him to your secret dreams. Begin without warning! Do you want him to tie you up? Give him the rope. Do you want him to cut the shorts on your body?

Give him the knife. Or maybe you want to make a home video? Then buy a tripod. It is unlikely that a man will resist if a woman silently reveals that she wants to play with him in "dirty games."


Approve it

But not in bed, but in everyday life. Tell him what he's goal-oriented, how much he does to realize your dreams. This is the best way to give him the courage to make love. If he feels that you respect him, he will dare to admit to himself in his "filthy desires." And then, at night, he will dare to tell about them and you - until you, with difficulty breathing, will not whisper to him: "Oh yes, you are magnificent! And where were you before? "And he was always here. He was just waiting for someone like you to wake him up with a kiss.