Phobias of modern men

It so happened historically that we women consider men to be fearless knights. Also about the male power and fearlessness says the division of us into two halves: strong and weak.

That is why we rarely think about the fact that men can be afraid of something. But this does not mean that they are not afraid, just admit their half in fears - this is considered weakness, cowardice, and generally bad form. Another thing to confess to a friend: "We went home yesterday, and a huge dog jumped out of the entrance, I could hardly restrain myself, so as not to run away, but I did not give a look." And no matter how it may sound, the phobias of modern men are quite extensive. They do not necessarily concern danger and risk, it can be a phobia in front of a woman ...

By and large, men are not robots that are devoid of feelings, so it's silly to deny having phobias, but fighting them is even worse. It is enough to know about fears and to be able to use them.

It's no secret that almost all the little boys are afraid of the dark, and when this fear passes with age, another fearsome woman appears, even more terrible. As a rule, by the age of twenty, a modern man already has his own list, which is gradually replenished. But this does not mean that women mock at men, just differ in their outlook on life.

If you are in a relationship, then you should carefully follow the reaction of your companion and figure out what he is afraid of. By doing this, you can manage it and prove that you are absolutely harmless and safe.

Phobia 1

This fear manifests itself during the courtship of a partner. At the first stage of the relationship, you have much more rights and opportunities, because you decide - you will be in bed or not. At the same time, a man is nervous and feels vulnerable. He does his best to pretend that he is ready to wait, how much you will demand, but in fact ready to pounce at any second. Only here he can not be attacked by his phobia. That is, the fear of being rejected.

Phobia 2

Most representatives of the stronger sex are characterized by indiscriminate intimate relationships, but before you reach them, you must first induce someone. The phobia of modern men is the problem of choosing a partner for these relationships. The problem is that they are afraid of not wounded self-esteem, but rather a refusal. Let's say the situation when a guy at the party chose two victims and can not decide for a long time which one of them will agree. He is afraid that he will spend the whole evening on a person who will eventually say: "You are very nice and I was pleased to talk, but I'm going home with another." For a man, this means - a misfire, an unsuccessful hunt, a loss! After all, the other, from which he "refused" for the sake of the partner who failed, would not have refused accurately. That's why men are afraid of choice.

Tip: if you watch the opponent "on the battlefield," behave as uninhibited as possible, laugh heartily at his jokes, flirt and admire smile. Do not sit in a corner, depicting an offense - this will minus you, which is a plus for your opponent.

Phobia 3

Men are afraid of refusal. Despite the fact that most of them portray a macho, once they meet a beautiful girl, then at once all the wit and temper will go away somewhere. And there are only nerves, stretched, like strings. Nevertheless, he will try to prove himself and squeeze a couple of jokes, but if you have a zero reaction on your part, then it will evaporate instantly.

Tip: do not pretend to be an iron lady, if the guy at least a little bit, so you scare him off. Smile at him and support the conversation. Well, that he is silent, maybe he just went crazy with your appearance.

Phobia 4

Most of all men are afraid of responsibility and serious relationships. Therefore, after sex, they try to leave quickly and unnoticed so that you do not even have time to ask: "When will we meet again?" "They believe that when to meet, with whom and where - it's up to them, and you are brazenly trying to get into their territory. Also, do not show pressure for cohabitation, because men perceive it as a red traffic light. And even if your relationship is already at the pre-trial stage, do not force events, let it be done to your man. Otherwise, there will be no wedding!

Phobia 5

Most of all men value their freedom. And if they notice that you start to encroach on it, then from the category of the girl you fly to the category - a friend.

Tip: The best option in a relationship is when there is space, the right to choose and certain hours of freedom. Yes, the clock! You can not forbid a man to do everything he did before meeting you, otherwise turn into an enemy.

Phobia 6

The wording that the male friendship is stronger than the female one, while the female one does not exist at all, in this case completely justifies itself. Representatives of the stronger sex are afraid because of you to lose friends or to be known among them as "henpecked". They are also afraid that you will not be hospitable. A great role here is played by male vanity. They want to show what a wonderful companion they have chosen for themselves, so that friends can appreciate it.

Advice: most girls forget about their girlfriends immediately after they meet their mate. This fact frightens a man, because he is not ready to make such sacrifices. So do not forget about your friends, let your man see that besides him you have many friends.

Phobia 7

Also the man is very afraid that you will take money from him. What is most surprising, this phobia is most developed in men with prosperity. They are afraid to meet a woman who sees them only as an enrichment goal. If you are lucky enough to meet such a partner in life, then bear in mind that sometimes he will throw a questioning look at you: "Are you with me for money?" "

Phobia 8

Also, most men are afraid that a woman will want a child. No, that does not mean that they are against children at all. They just think that children should be started after 30 years. And if you want a child earlier, you can scare it up to the point of separation.

So, now you are familiar with the most common phobias of men and know how to deal with them. And if you want to hear about the fears of men from the mouth of a man, then do not rely on your partner, it's best to contact a friend or brother.