First, it is necessary to understand the situation and honestly admit to himself whether he is right. Many girls often think about the question: what to do if the guys think I'm hysterical, but they are absolutely sure of their rightness.
Unfortunately, this is not always the case. If a guy is a calm person with a Nordic type of character, very important for him, there will be peace and wisdom of the girl who always and in any situation can keep herself in the hands. But girls can not do this often. It must be remembered that the guy thinks that the ideal woman is the woman who can always listen and help to make a decision guided by the brain, not feelings. Of course, men rarely show their need for help from the weaker sex, but, nevertheless, they need it more often than we think.
How can we understand in which cases a young man considers a girl incapable of coping with her emotions. First, it happens when a woman starts to make a problem out of any detail and can not calmly listen to arguments. The guy considers the lady a hysterical woman, who starts to slam the doors, leaves, tells that she does not need him at all, and thus can not give adequate arguments. Of course, in the state of "I was offended" by many ladies it seems that they are saying reasonable and right things. In fact, this is completely wrong. Naturally, there are times when a guy himself has some nervous disorders and sees hysterics even in slight reproach and slightly increased tone. In that case, if you are sure that you are really behaving adequately, you should ask yourself: is this attitude acceptable to me and will I be able to live with such a person? Of course, it is very difficult to think rationally, because love and rationality are often incompatible concepts, but you still need to think about the consequences of your relationship not becoming deplorable for you.
By the way, in order to understand whether you are a hysterical person in reality, it is worthwhile to listen to the opinions of others and adequately perceive and comprehend it. If so considers many people close to you who wish good, it is necessary to take care of yourself and rethink your behavior. Remember that even the most calm young man will not stand one day and just walk away. And then neither requests, nor screaming, nor tears will help you.
In order to avoid such a development of events, first of all learn to control yourself. If you understand that you absolutely do not like what the young man said, do not say the first thing that comes to mind, and do not break into a cry. If you understand that you can not restrain yourself, at least go out into another room, shout at him "about yourself," release emotions and then come back. Now that you have calmed down, even if the young man is not right, you can calmly argue your point of view and do not pressure him with crying and tears.
Also, you should never react to anything that you do not like, by the phrase: you do not love me. And certainly you should not force a guy to say those words. Men generally do not tend to talk too often about their love, but under pressure and even more so. Therefore, never reproach your young man for not loving you. Remember that love has never been synonymous with complete obedience and consent. Your beloved person has the full right to his own opinion and to utter it. Try to listen and understand, and in case of disagreement calmly explain your position.
By the way, it is worth noting that the hysterics are the worst reacting to those guys who have a calm character and phlegmatic type of temperament. Choleric people do not pay much attention to hysterics, because they themselves like to find out relationships on elevated tones for any reason. But phlegmatic people are silent for a long time, do not express a negative towards their girlfriend, but in their soul they accumulate anger and disappointment. And when these emotions overflow the cup of patience, such a young man expresses everything (and in anger he is terrible) and leaves. By the way, you never need to stop a guy, if he says that now he just wants to leave or somewhere to walk alone. In fact, he is not going to leave you, but just wants to calm his nerves, not to tell you something offensive and not hurt. If you start stopping a guy, screaming, hysterical, begging to stay, taking away his keys, jacket or jacket, it's very annoying, and he starts to get angry with you even more. Therefore, no matter how much you want to stop him, restrain yourself and calmly let him go. Most likely, in about twenty minutes he will return in a blessed mood.
Also, many women are beginning to wither under the influence of alcohol. The fact is that booze distorts the perception of reality and makes us all hyperbolize. Therefore, if you know that alcohol can lead to a scandal, do not drink at all or set for yourself that dose that will not become critical. Think, after how much alcohol you begin to see what is not, cry and scream, and remember this norm. Then you can control your intoxication and remain in a sober mind and a solid memory.
Of course, even if a guy thinks his woman is chaotic, he can still live with her all his life and tolerate her behavior. But, if you love this person, think about how much nerves and health he spends on your hysterics and how bad it is for him - you have to do something if the guy thinks you are hysterical. This is what should become the main reason for learning how to control your emotions and behave adequately in any situation. If you do this, you can be the happiest and beloved woman in this world.