But it's so scary, but suddenly it will not work, maybe something is wrong with me. Will I be a good mother. But in fact, until you try, you do not.
The first suspicions, scary, but it is necessary to go to a women's consultation. At a reception with a gynecologist, they say with a smile, "You are pregnant," and you realize that you've been waiting for this for a very long time. I was afraid, but I waited and hoped. Home on the wings of happiness, in order to quickly inform the beloved joyful news. And in the evening embracing, talking about who will be, a girl or a boy, who looks like and who will love the baby more.
But how joyful, so much and responsible this event. So much to do in nine months. So you need to prepare now. An excellent option for preparing the body and morale, enroll in a school of mothers. Experienced specialists will help you to master not complicated, but necessary exercises, for maintaining the physical form, this will enable the muscles to maintain a tone that will facilitate the flow of pregnancy and childbirth. Professional tips for caring for your child will help to avoid future problems. In addition, you will have the opportunity to get acquainted with moms, who in the future can become friends and a company for walking with the baby. It is very important that during the maternity leave, the woman does not feel isolated from the community. After all, before the advent of the child, surely there was a rich life, holidays in companies, trips to nature. And alternatives can be walks with children in a pleasant company, where the interests coincide.
In order to understand and accept your position as soon as possible, communicate with your baby. Let the tummy is not visible yet, but you know that the child is inside you, he lives, which means that as any living person needs communication. The fact that he does not understand anything does not mean anything. The child hears your voice, feels the intonation. And this is the only thing that after the birth will be familiar to him. Another good option is listening to music. It's better to choose quiet, not too loud melodies. The ideal choice is a classic. This music is charged with emotions, a large assortment of instruments enables performance at different frequencies, which is very pleasing to children and soothing.
Emotional state of a woman during pregnancy is very shaky. Because the body is a hormonal explosion. In this period, as proved by scientists, the amount and activity of hormones in the female body is as much as people do not allocate for a hundred years of life. Hence, frequent mood swings, tearfulness. And so it is very important to support close people, the feeling that you really need. A husband who will tolerate all the whims and fulfill all desires is also a reliable support.
The fear that women experience before giving birth is nothing less than a fear of pain. But as the well-known wisdom says, we have to pass only those tests that we can overcome. So this pain is for good too. What can be compared to the birth of a new life. To give the world a new life, but to yourself a native person who will always be there and will never cease to love. From the smile of which, all adversity will go away, the first word is "mom", which will sound like music, and warm the soul. And only then do you understand that this is a miracle given by God. And thank the Almighty for such an invaluable gift.