Communication with a child before birth

Today, all the centers for preparing couples for the birth of a child help future parents to establish contact with him.

Attitudes toward this in people are different, someone considers communication with the child before birth absurd, they say, there is no one to communicate with, others communicate with the baby through stroking the tummy.

Let's try to figure out whether it's possible to communicate with the child before birth, as possible, and whether there is any sense in this.
Today, the fact that in 6 weeks a child reacts to light is reliable. Already at 10-11 weeks he feels touch, warmth, pain, pressure and reacts to them. The child turns away if the feeling did not like. At the age of 18-20 the baby shows character, he can get angry, frightened, rejoice. At this time, the child hears, is able to distinguish voices, he may like certain music. It is known that the child likes melodic music before birth, the children of Vivaldi and Mozart prefer. In the six-month-old children, the vestibular apparatus develops, they differentiate the position of the body in space, and turn over. At the same time they begin to taste, and on the ninth month, the sense of smell develops.

So, there is no doubt that there is someone to communicate with.

Talk with the child.

Future parents should talk to the baby out loud, because the ear is the ear that develops the child, and on the eve of birth he can already recognize the parents by their voices and intonations. In the course of the research it was revealed that children with whom parents communicated before birth are less crying, listen more closely to parents for a longer time than children who were not communicating with their parents before birth. Talking with the child, tell him how you expect him and love him, that you feel warmth and tenderness to him, that he is the best, clever, talented and many more.

Music lessons and singing .
A wonderful way to communicate with a child before birth is singing. During singing, a woman experiences her emotions and feelings more strongly, which is better perceived by the child, because he not only hears the voice of his mother, but also feels vibrations, receives impulses from her body.

Listen to music, very soon on the behavior of the child you can understand what he likes. Tastes in children are varied: some prefer quiet music, while others prefer more dynamic, rhythmic, the third likes to "dance" and move slightly to the beat.

Scientists have proved that folk, classical music before birth can strengthen the neurons of the baby, when listening to such music, the child has a close functional connection of the cerebral hemispheres. Such children are more capable of learning, reading and learning foreign languages. They have a subtle musical ear.

Upbringing before birth.
Obviously, when communicating with the child before birth begins and his upbringing. After all, in the process of communication, the child is given a manner of speaking, musical taste.

The development of a little man, his brain depends on the lifestyle of his mother. Above we mentioned the development of the child's vestibular apparatus, and this requires movement. The child reacts to different movements of the mother, changes the position when the mother leans, swings on walking, turns over simultaneously with her mother. This prepares your baby for birth, teaches him to feel the upper and lower, because he will have to coordinate his movements, be able to roll over and crawl, and soon to walk.

Doing gymnastics, future moms notice that some exercises like the child, and others do not like, so mothers have to adapt to the baby - something to do more slowly, relax more, etc. This is also a kind of communication with the child, because they perform gymnastics together.

When to start communicating with the child?
Communication can begin even before the baby begins to hear, feel the touch, to our sensations of his first weak movements.

The heart of the baby begins to beat on day 18, it reacts to the impulses of feelings and emotions of the mother. This explains why women often feel a child before the appearance of signs of pregnancy.

The wisdom of nature is amazing: it gives us nine months to communicate with the child and getting used to the idea of ​​future parenting. In the course of this communication, we develop the qualities that parents need: we learn to understand our feelings and feelings, patience, sensitivity and attentiveness, we are approaching being the best parents for our child.