1. Reverse reaction
The first rule of flirting is simple, like all ingenious. In order to have people with you, you need to be interested in what seems to them the most interesting, that is, they themselves. It's no secret that most people like to talk about themselves, on topics that somehow concern them. If you show sincere interest in the interlocutor, the reverse reaction will be positive. But it is important to observe the limits of decency, do not question a stranger about too intimate things. If you see that some topic is unpleasant to the person with whom you are communicating, start talking about something else, divert attention from an acute question.
2. Mimicry
No less important, communicating, watch your facial expressions. Our face is a reflection of emotions that we experience, on it are literally written some features of our character and even habits. If you can read by face, even about a stranger, you can learn a lot. Therefore, if you want to flirt with someone, focus on the expression of your face. A straight, but not studying look and a smile will help you, but a frowning forehead, mournful creases at the mouth, a disgruntled squint will push you away, no matter how hard you try. Remember that not only immediate emotions and thoughts are imprinted on your face, but also the general mood, the so-called background, with which you live most of your life. Therefore, if you are a melancholy and self-contained person, relax your face muscles and smile to smooth out the sharp corners of your character.
3. Body language
The rules of flirting are the rules of not only verbal communication. If a person talks about us a lot, then the body gives out everything that we hide behind a sweet smile and an encouraging look. If a person is sitting with his arms and legs crossed, hunched over, with his head down, then no matter how sweet his speech was, however attractive his face was, few would want to communicate with him. Straighten your shoulders, lift your head and relax. In order for your interlocutor to feel that he is genuinely interesting to you, look into his eyes alternately. This creates the feeling that a person is listened to very carefully. But, flirting, avoid too explicit poses and gestures, otherwise you may be misunderstood.
Another secret that you can use is to copy the gestures and posture of the interlocutor. Of course, do not do it too openly, but if the conversation is lively, and you will sometimes change your poses and do the same gestures, it will not strike you and will not look strange. Masters of communication argue that you can even adjust your breathing to another person, which almost guarantees harmony in communication.
4. Points of contact
The art of flirting is multifaceted - it is a swing of eyelashes, and a half-smile, and a mysterious look, inviting gesture, but it's also the ability to find, above all, a resemblance to people. Communicating, pay attention to the fact that you can draw together with the person who you like. It can be anything, but the more such points of contact you find, the easier it will be to like you. To bring people closer can love for the same drinks or music, work or hobbies, views on life.
5. The limits of the permissible
Flirting is an unobtrusive communication that does not bind you to anything. This is what attracts him, he is considered an innocent entertainment and does not see in this a reason for jealousy. However, flirting can lead to a more intimate relationship. Whether you want to continue communicating - it's up to you, it's important to give a signal just in time, whether you are ready for a meeting in a more intimate atmosphere or farther than sharing pleasantries in a bar, you are not ready to go. Sometimes it happens that one person spent another pleasant evening at the company and that's enough, and the other saw in smiles and compliments a hint of something more, which gives rise to a lack of mutual understanding. But flirting is so beautiful that you can keep intrigue in your relationship for as long as you want or as much as the patience of your interlocutor suffices.
The rules of flirting are not written in textbooks, they are spoken in different words and in different languages, however, with experience everyone comes to understand the value of communication and finds techniques that allow enjoying this communication to the fullest. Flirt - a great opportunity to get your share of pleasant emotions and regain self-confidence, as well as a chance to find your soul mate.