If a man says that he does not believe in love, then he does not want anyone to open his soul. Even the most hardened realists and ladies' lovers, most often, become just because of love. They are silent about this, they hide deeply in the soul the experiences that remained with them for life, and laugh at love, debunking the ideals of many girls. Perhaps these guys even hate love, like feeling. The fact is that at one time, it was she who forced them to be weak, humiliated, depressed. They will not talk about it and will deny everything, but it is because of unrequited love that such a negative attitude to this feeling appears. It is very difficult for such men to admit their feelings even when they exist, break out and obscure the mind.
The guy from the last forces will restrain himself, and deny all emotions. This, in fact, violence against oneself, which leads to depression and disappointment in life and myself. For such people it is clear that they insincerely deny love. It can be read through the eyes, heard in some phrases, which they say before they have time to think about what has been said. In fact, it is very painful and difficult, when next to you is such a loved one or friend. It takes a huge amount of time, constant care and love to make it open, to recognize your feelings again and not to be afraid that they will bring weakness and break your heart. You can never put pressure on such a person. The fact is that people who forcibly relieve themselves of feelings, spend on it too much pain and suffering. Therefore, they can not so simply and immediately abandon the result, which they sought for years. It is necessary to spend more than one month for the young man to open his heart a little and trust you with feelings. In fact, for such people, to trust someone with a feeling, this is akin to entrusting life. It just seems to them that one can fight and win wars on emotions. Undivided love, weakness and humiliation associated with it, lead to the fact that the guy begins to use feelings only in the form of weapons. If his emotions can not be so, he begins to block them. If you want to help such a person, be patient and persuaded, read a psychology and, most importantly, listen to it. Every normal person is capable of love. But not everyone wants to be known about it by others. You must learn to feel the moments when he is ready to open up and do everything to not lose this thread. Over time, the young man will close in himself less and less. You can teach him to be more frank and, eventually, he will be able to again admit that he is capable of loving for real.
Unfortunately, there are women in the world who like to hurt men. They lie and change, not seeing anything reprehensible in this. Victims of these ladies is another category of guys who do not believe in love. These young people were deceived by their wives or girls. Cheats, of course, are different, for example, such as treason, blackmail, use as a means to extract finance and much more. Ways to cause men to hate the female sex very much, but the result is one - he no longer believes in love. In our love. Such guys are so disappointed in the ladies that they really do not allow the sincerity of feelings on our part. It's extremely difficult to communicate with such young people, because every word, every emotion, makes them suspicious. These people try to the last not to believe in what the woman said, even if they really want it. They can be understood, because some lady believed such a guy unconditionally - and it turned out to be a tragedy for him.
To deceived young people to break even harder than to those who suffered from undivided love. The first category of young people does not show feelings, but it is easy enough to contact women. But the second case is much more complicated. If you try to take care of such a person or talk to him about feelings, in ninety-nine percent of a hundred he will begin to categorically reject everything and say that this simply can not be. If the guys from the first category do not believe that they can love them, then the guys with the second category do not believe in women's sincere love for men in principle. Therefore, even trying to become such a friend for such a person, most likely, you will stumble on a wide wall out of distrust and misunderstanding. With these guys it's harder and hardest to build any relationship. The fact is that consciously or subconsciously, they begin to avenge the pain that they brought a female individual. And all this negative can be spilled on you. Not every woman can sustain this and continue to fight for the heart and feelings of a man. It is necessary to be not only a woman, but also a sister, a friend, in some way a mother, in order to gain a little confidence. Such young people are extremely difficult to make contact, do not talk about themselves and try to close as much as possible and move away from women. At best, they see in girls only a sexual object that can be used, and at worst - they are not interested in anything at all.
If a man says that he does not believe in love, then he is exactly capable of it. Only the woman who made him think so, could not appreciate it. Of course, you can change everything, or, at least, try to do it. But never expect a quick result and an easy road to the heart. You will need a lot of time, effort and patience, so that your man again believes in the existence of romantic feelings. If you succeed, then you can be sure that there will be a kind, good, gentle sensual man nearby who loves you.