Sex after childbirth

As in any sphere of life, after the birth of a baby, family relations are changing. Undoubtedly, the happiness and joy of motherhood will not be able to outshine even the most serious problems, but the negative changes in sex after birth still bring their own spoonful of tar. Let's understand, what features conceals in itself procreation and what to do, if at all it would not be desirable sex after sorts or labors.

Scientific substantiation of the problem

After a hard test for the female body, he needs time to recover. Long months of pregnancy and childbirth is not only a moral, but also a physiological load, which a fragile female body needs to cope with.

The sexual relations of the spouses in the postpartum period can be influenced by several factors:

• the nature of the course of pregnancy;
• severity of the process of delivery;
• possible complications or their absence;
• well-being of a woman during childbirth and after their termination.

When it is possible to be engaged in performance of a matrimonial duty?

If the birth was a natural method and no complications arose in the process, then the uterus is released from blood and secretions within 4-6 weeks. Approximately the same amount of time will be required for the body to return to its normal state, "experiencing" all the changes that fell on the female fate. At this time, the uterus is shortened and damaged tissue, the gaps are completely restored. Of course, intimate contacts during this period are undesirable and there are a number of reasons:

1. The sex organs of a woman after delivery are susceptible to infections of any kind, which can be carried in both the vagina and the uterus itself. This can provoke the appearance of inflammatory processes and endometritis - a serious postpartum complication.
2. Before you have sex after childbirth, you need to remember that bleeding can resume. Therefore, it is better to wait at least 6 weeks, so as not to damage the female body.

This concerns the normal method of delivery. If the process took place with medical intervention or with serious complications, the question of how much to renew the intimate life should be explained by the attending physician, based on the individual characteristics of the mother in childbirth.

It hurts to have sex after giving birth - what to do?

Many girls face the appearance of uncomfortable or even painful sensations during sexual intercourse. The reason for this may be an insufficient amount of lubrication or unprotected injuries in both the perineum and the internal organs of the parturient woman. Often there are cases when pain persists even after second birth and after sex the woman does not receive satisfaction.

The solution to the first problem is to use lubricants. However, do not abuse this tool, because the natural secretory functions can not be replaced by a synthetic substance. Leave more time for foreplay, and leave the lubricants as an auxiliary attribute.

If the reason lies in the presence of internal scars or ruptures, then you can pick up with your partner more comfortable poses or use special ointments with a "resorptive" effect.

However, if the first sex after birth complicates the decreased tone of the vagina, then this problem can not be avoided. You can reduce discomfort by doing exercises using Kegel's technique to get your muscles back to normal.