Most women firmly believe that having sex on a first date is an indicator of frivolity and debauchery. But even this number of ladies sometimes in my head are born the thought that this can happen and it is interesting how men relate to sex on their first date. In this situation, every man has his own opinion on this matter.
Sex after first date: goals
On how the man will treat sex on a first date, as a rule, the further course of development of relations depends. Here it is worth highlighting two types of men who go on a date, pursue their own special goals. The first type can be attributed to those representatives of the stronger sex, who on the first date are set exclusively for intimacy. The second type is men who, of course, are not against sex on the first date, but to the fore they are interested in the girl herself and in the further development of relations (in anticipation of their transition to something more serious). In the first case, when a man goes on a date exclusively for sex, hope for the seriousness of the relationship is not worth it, because those men who are determined to drag a girl into bed, are unlikely to be able to look at it not as an object of their desires.
Even if in bed a girl will treat a man with all sensuality and passion, except for a couple more such meetings, she will receive nothing from him. A man belonging to this number is very difficult to keep, so it's always worth remembering about this. Of course, if a woman is satisfied with such rules of the game, then she and all the cards in hand, and if not, then sorry. If a man wants sex, he usually talks about it out loud. But to push a companion to sex with the help of romantic tales is the lot of immature men or teenagers. An adult man will always let know what he really wants. By the way, such concepts as "sex on a first date" and "sex for one night" for them, these concepts are in balance.
Male look
Not all men are so terrible and insidious, as many people imagine. Of course, any man is not against intimacy on the first date. Most likely, this is due to the male nature of a predator, conqueror, conqueror. Representatives of the stronger sex like to quickly achieve their goals and, thus, indulge their ego, but no more. According to experts, a man needs time to understand for himself all the pros and cons of a woman and determine how much that is dear to him. Admitting sex on a first date, a woman can discourage the interest of a man's every desire to conquer her in the future. And now let's try to summarize the various reactions of a man to an unexpectedly rapid sexual contact. All this conditionally we will divide into several groups.
The first group: based on men's surveys, it is the most numerous. No matter how amazing it may sound, many men respond negatively to women who decide to have sex after the first date.
The second group: this includes men who do not see any "crime" in this. This opinion is typical for men who, as a rule, are self-confident and successful. These men flaunt that time goes on, the stereotypes of society change, etc. Of course, modesty is still appreciated, but stressed inaccessibility, in the opinion of men, is nothing more than "stuffing the price."
The third group: not so much concerns men, how many women. Think about it, consider it a mistake and show remorse - it terribly repels the man, forcing him to draw negative conclusions. Men love sincerity, so they treat with understanding, when you directly talk to them about your fears.
The fourth group: according to men, to lose interest in a woman after a quick sex they can in case of her wrong behavior (repentance, familiarity). Therefore, if a man is inclined to "collect his girlfriends for sex," he will leave, but not from her, but will run away on his own, and if not, then do not scare him yourself.
These reactions of men to intimate affinity after the first meeting are increasingly encountered in modern society.