According to scientists, the average duration of sexual intercourse is about 9.5 minutes. And the dreams and thoughts about these almost ten minutes, as a rule, leaves the lion's share of our lives. But with full satisfaction to complete this secret desyatiminutku may not all of us! And the main reason for this is nothing else than sexual illiteracy, which arises on the basis of the most ridiculous myths and fears. By the way, both women and men are equally exposed to bedragms.
Full protection
Of course, none of the men will argue that women's contraception has made their sex life more vivid and carefree. But some members of the stronger sex tend to believe that if the woman takes hormonal pills, she will turn into an insatiable priestess. And here, in itself, a frightening question arises: "Will it satisfy her?".
Also, fears the use of the intrauterine device: "Will this kind of thing jump out at the moment of having sex and will it hurt the most important male instrument?". And this is not to mention the candles and gels that prevent imagination from unwanted pregnancy and some venereal diseases, which the hypochthonous cavaliers have as a new source of fear: "What if this all leads to inflammation?"
In fact : hormonal contraceptives can not be related to either man or his masculine dignity. They can only affect the menstrual cycle of a woman, but not her sexuality. But such a "terrible" intrauterine spiral is completely harmless, since it will not be for anything. Such a spiral is firmly fixed, and is extracted only with the help of a gynecologist and special tools. By the way, for a lady this is a very painful procedure.
And the fear of using all sorts of ointments and candles is justified, because you should remember that every chemical can provoke allergy to the genital mucosa. Avoid this can only use high-quality and tested drugs, bought only in the pharmacy.
Your orgasm - your worries
"I shook myself for an hour - she never experienced an orgasm!". A woman does not get any pleasure if she does not have feelings for a man. And if they are, then she needs to be treated for frigidity, since a healthy woman should receive an orgasm always and everywhere. And some even fool men, imitating pleasure!
In fact : A man needs, in the first place, to realize that this is his problem. Maybe he is an egoist in the field and thinks only of himself, forgetting about his partner. By the way, sometimes you can meet such men who are far from the concept of "female orgasm." Another option: a partner is a sexual dilettante and has no idea how to make a lady in bed nicely. Of course, there is an option that a man is a clamped person with a lot of complexes, which prefers only one pose while thinking that the woman is in seventh heaven with pleasure.
Fact . In 79% of the representatives of the beautiful sex orgasm directly depends on the clitoris. Perhaps it was precisely this reason, even in ancient times, that he bore the name of a "lover". It is for this causal hourly marathon on the principle of "back and forth" will not give a positive result. It's quite another matter if a lady has an orgasm for a block. As a rule, it happens stemi, who from the very childhood was inspired that sex is bad. That's the basis of the formed attitude towards sex and here only a sexologist.
Do not offend the little ones
The size of the penis is one of the most basic headaches of every man. If the "friend" did not come out as growth, the life of a man turns into hell. Excruciating thoughts and tastes become permanent companions of such a man, and as a result he can put an end to the sexual life, justifying it by the fact that the girl can not even feel anything.
In fact : Centimeters female happiness is immeasurable. So all the worries that a woman will not feel anything is a ruble. 8 centimeters is the normal length of the vagina, and male dignity is usually not shorter.
Fact . In 90% of adults, the strong sex at the time of excitation, the genitalia is 11 to 20 centimeters. At the time of erection, according to scientists, the longest member was 35 centimeters long, and the smallest member was recorded at 1.3 centimeters.
Balls and balls
As the statistics show, men are worried about not only the size of the penis, but also the volume of their testicles. Here the picture is as follows: large - it's solid, medium-will, small - cause for excitement and complexes. Despite the fact that this issue is the least worrying, men are racking their brains over the complex of perfection.
In fact : No value the size of testicles does not. The main thing is their functional state, as they produce male sex hormones (androgens) and the higher their level, the more developed the masculine qualities. According to sex therapists, testosterone is the basis of the male constitution. Testosterone testosterone role depends on the role of men not only in bed, but also in society. In other words, if a man lies on the couch for days on end, he does not have enough testosterone, and if he can do it all the time, he's fine with hormones.
And yet, very unusual testicles can sometimes be a symptom of a disease that can bring discomfort in sex. So run it does not follow.
Bloody sex
At moments of critical days, sex can not even be discussed. In such a period a woman can easily catch an infection, and a nervous partner lose control over herself. So to provoke a man-man "sinful connection" at such a moment is not worth it.
In fact : This is nonsense! Some Damascus is at this moment to feel all of its sexuality. And all because in the period of menstruation there is a release of hormones, plus to the whole lady you always want what you can not. The main thing is to observe all the rules of hygiene in these days.
Dissatisfaction and its indicators
In the distant past, the women who were late were troubled by the female orgasm. It was assumed that in the absence of pleasure, a woman feels various changes in the body: constant headaches, nerves. Of course, today cosmetics conceals everything, does avot leave a secret dissatisfaction?
In fact : Dissatisfied with the sexual plan, the woman is immediately noticeable in her behavior and you can not hide it. The total bitchiness is a sign of dissatisfaction.
Acrobats in bed
Often in the company of men, the phrase sounds: "Yes, she's just super in sex!". And how to meet this definition, so as not to be called a "log"? But sometimes you just want a simple and calm love.
In fact : Does it have a special meaning of the words sounded in the men's company, because they do not always correspond to the truth. Why meet the mythical standards, because the main thing is for both partners to be well!