How to remain loved and desired?
Observe elementary shame. A man is not alien to anything human and your man is an exception, and a woman must understand this. Therefore, the woman is advised to remove the means of feminine hygiene away and the toilet door is better to close nazamok. The main killer of sexuality between partners is becoming stale and the rest of the prose of life. And believe me this is not a method to emphasize mutual trust. Men are also concerned - "spiritual simplicity" and everyday slovenliness quite quickly nullify all feelings and delights, especially if the hormonal storms subsided.
Hide your body. How do men relate to the naked girl walking around - a free man would roll his eyes in ecstasy and lift his thumbs up, and a married man would most likely respond with sadness that it quickly gets bored, even if the girl has exquisite beauty. Usually, when we go out on the street, we, standing in front of the mirror, prune ourselves, smooth out the dresses, blouses and skirts. And this is all to mingle with unfamiliar people, and, being with loved ones at home, we look sloppy and we go to something. Thus, we show disrespect towards the home. Moreover, we are short-sightedness, which in the future can turn into a collapse of relations. An excellent solution will be to wear neat and beautiful clothes at home and do not have to be made from silk and lace. At the same time, beautiful underwear and provoking negligee is not canceled. Observing accuracy, and the same require from the man.
Do not be each other's problems. Often, women complain to a beloved man. He, of course, can listen, shake his head, substitute the man's shoulder as a vest. But the evening whining can not return the passion in the relationship between you, even harmless whining destroys the relationship. Find interesting and life-affirming topics for conversations with your loved ones, for example, share your joint impressions of visiting a movie, theater, concert. Having received a charge of emotions, share them with the one who loves you, if there are many positive emotions, then conversations about everyday life will come down dominant. You can also read each other out loud, you can start, for example, loveable children's books. Such methods will help restore the relationship is the same.
Learn to not harass grievances. Resentment is perhaps the most powerful killer of sex, which slips unnoticed and destroys the sexual attraction to the ground. Then - the curtain and the girl. It is very difficult to have sex with a man who again forgot the wedding day, communicating with a former girlfriend, rude to your mother. Therefore, going to bed with the abuser, leave all offenses behind the threshold of the bedroom, or at all do not go to the bedroom. Going to bed with a man, make sure that you do not have bad thoughts about him. After trying once sex, consisting of old grievances, to experience again all this for sure you will not want. It is necessary to learn at first, find out the relationship by talking with a man, and then, when everything is settled to go to the bedroom for a romantic reconciliation.
Observe the necessary distance. After the wedding, a couple of years you can sleep together, and then better to sleep on different mattresses. Not every woman experiences convenience in the moment when her man sees a not quite fresh face and the disheveled hair of her own woman. But most often married people sleep together, because they are accustomed to "so taken", and this gets worse from sleep. An interesting fact is that the aristocracy and other nobility of all nations and times had separate bedrooms. This approach had its own meaning - personal space was preserved. Therefore, if you get the opportunity to sleep separately, use it.