Unfortunately, often we fall absolutely in love with those people. If this happens, then we begin to justify ourselves by saying "you can not tell your heart" and continue to cry in your pillow and lose heart from unrequited love. Most often unrequited love in our lives breaks in without knocking. But everything would be okay if you could wipe everything off like dust or dust off your shoulders, but usually everything happens completely differently.
In a person who is tormented by love, in life, as a rule, everything starts to go wrong - career collapses, sleep and appetite disappears, often disappears and the sense of further live. Because of a nervous breakdown, you can even get to the hospital, so that this does not happen, you need as soon as possible to get rid of the afflicted disease. How to do it, we will now tell.
1. All friends and friends in this case are advised to find another object. This advice should be heeded. But if they have never untested themselves, then what you are experiencing now, they will hardly understand your state, because they do not know how difficult it is to turn their attention to a completely different person. Life seems dull and dull, so it's difficult to notice a nice stranger who, for several hours, builds eyes for you.
Signs of attention from men are increasingly annoying, and the object of identification in comparison with other imperfect competitors seems more and more ideal. But remember, ideal people do not exist, and your chosen one is actually divided by a hundredth of a percent only approximates the ideal. But he is far from ideal, for example, Mercury from Pluto.
But most often, people panic fall in love with the person who does not fit their own taste, not to mention the generally accepted idea. Look around, for sure there is an object much prettier than one that does not even notice you. Do not deceive neither others, nor yourself, saying that your chosen one is the best and you will not find it better. It is deceptive, because you will agree, almost any person will be replaced.
2. The above advice did not help? Then try to find fault with your chosen one. Believe me, they have it! If he has an unsportsmanlike figure, then you should not justify him, saying that you are over the soul in the body. It is not true! If now you meet a tanned athlete by the way, then, most likely, you will forget about the failed cavalier. If your loved one is sporty and tall, then try to imagine what kind of children you will have with him, whom you want to have if the chosen one becomes your husband. If the selector is a sporty physique, then perhaps he is not interested in anything at all. Accordingly, in his head only dumbbells, proteins, rocking chairs and other sports attributes. In this case, the phrase "you do not need a mind, if you force it". Now think about whether you need a stupid child, because he will receive father's genes? Most likely, no, which means that the chosen one is not the hero of your novel.
3. If this did not help, then contact a psychologist. Nestoit is ashamed of this - every star in the West has a personal psychologist. The psychologist is needed to consult him on any occasion and even bezpodov. Telling a stranger his story, you can look at what's happening. It is possible that you will feel awkward or even embarrassed about the absurd story, you may feel stupid and understand that out of the mukhirazduli elephant.
4. Among other things, get involved in a new hobby. Make a note of dancing, go to the gym, do something that you can get carried away with. Of course, you will not be distracted from unrequited love, that's why think up how to associate your passion with the object of desire. If you start to attend a sports hall, you can think about how the chosen one will look at you, after you become slim. This goal will encourage you to take steps to work on yourself. And maybe after a great result, the chosen one wants to stay with you forever. Perhaps by that time, it will not be interesting to you, because in the gym there are many nice men who want to get acquainted with swami.
5. Look at everything real. If your chosen one has a permanent girl or a bride, then do not console yourself with the illusions that he will throw it away. If I would long ago abandoned and was with you.