We are waiting for the situation to change for the better by itself. But life is not a fairy tale, you can only miss the time when you can still do something.
So, the worst happened - he left, and no longer wants to return. Parting is a powerful blow for any woman. In such a situation, the mind is often lost, there is no ability to think, and accordingly, something to do.
How to return the previous relationship with a guy? To begin with, you need to calm down - you can go to a friend, a psychologist, a priest (who, which is closer), they will certainly listen, they will regret. Or find the strength in yourself to be able to figure out in yourself, in your mistakes. It is necessary to understand that it is impossible to return the past, it has gone irrevocably. You can only start with a clean sheet, and the new life must be different and coordinate differently from the old one.
You need to start with yourself. Carefully study yourself, maybe something has changed in you? Is self-confidence gone? So, self-esteem has fallen. If you want to return a relationship with a guy, you need to start with self-confidence, return the former attractiveness and self-confidence to the previous level or higher. In order to restore the former appeal, one must try to forget the guy (at the level of consciousness, of course), free himself from negative emotions and previous stereotypes. Otherwise, they destroy you and only aggravate the situation in which you are now.
Then you need to start rethinking why and why you love him. Since there was a gap, it is not so often that the guys have a desire to return to that former love. He needs another, who was able to understand himself, understand his mistakes and learn how to control them. Who perfectly understands what and how to sacrifice for the sake of gaining one's happiness. And it will be a completely different woman, and you must become her. To change yourself in the right direction, you need to constantly receive positive emotions, this will completely free yourself from dependence on the previous mistakes and try to start another, new life.
Previously, the source of positive was for sure your boyfriend, and now there must be something else, quite easy and affordable. The most important task now for you is to enjoy life in all its manifestations - in food, clothes, cosmetics, entertainment, go to rest, which has long dreamed of. In general, it is necessary to fill your life with joy and light. Learn to find pleasure in everything that surrounds you, fill every minute of your day with happiness. All this will allow you to further enhance your self-esteem and attractiveness. You will become an absolutely different person, from you will come happiness and warmth, your fluids will be felt by the surrounding men. For you it will not remain unnoticed.
In one of the most beautiful and wonderful moments, when you are busy with your own happiness, your previous relationship can return. At that moment, you must clearly understand whether you, the new wise girl, need your old life. With the previous campaigns in the same, let it once be your favorite movie theater, theater or concert hall. Listen to yourself, if you are not ready to return all this, it is better to forget at once, in order to build new relationships with new forces.