Love according to plan

It is commonly believed that love is something sudden and unplanned. What can not be foreseen and what is given to us by fate. Unfortunately, modern realities tell us the opposite. And if you wait for the "manna of heaven", then the desired happiness can not be obtained. In addition, this is a classic about us saying "and the horse will stop at a gallop, and enter the burning hut", so we should build a plan to find love and put it into practice.


Set a goal

Each successful goal, as a rule, begins with a well thought out plan. It is not necessary to set up sky-high, hard-to-reach goals, in the achievement of which only pure chance will help. The desire to meet the generous prince with dorogaschimavtomobile and country house in which the whole wardrobe is stuffed with Chanel outfits is not the goal, but one of those unrealizable dreams that sometimes torment the girls before the dream. The goal is, for example, the desire to marry a head of a firm that has such an education. Growth at 180 cm, is fond of jumping.

After you understand what kind of man you need, pay attention to the nest. Your appearance and internal qualities must match the chosen men. Only in this case you are interested in such a person. For this, you should be attractive and have a fairly high level of intelligence. But do not overdo it. Anyone will be frightened off by an overabundance of precepts of amusing phrases. If you are both beautiful and intelligent, then such a goal will be for you, if not easily attainable, then at least a lot of it will not have to "bother" with it. If it does, it will be necessary to invest some investment in improving its external appearance. At the first stage, update your wardrobe. To begin, add a few spectacular outfits. Buy good cosmetics. Let it be a little bit, but it will be of high quality. If necessary, work on your figure.

After the assignment of the desired with the possible, determine the period for which the goal will be achieved. For a month, in a half a year or a year?

After this, the plan should be divided into several parts: finance, marketing and implementation.

Marketing

First, analyze the market, that is, find the answer to the question "Where can I meet such a man whom you would like to see in the role of your chosen one." For example, in some communities, restaurants or other institutions, which, in your opinion, may interest him.

Dalelezduet find out what values ​​this object has and to inscribe them in the list of personal interests. You do not need to study in detail any sphere. It is enough to show interest and know some facts about it. Study certain data, for example, on the topic of business or cycling, depending on what he is interested in. So you can interest him and support the conversation. In addition, many men like when a woman does not understand something and asks him to explain everything to her.

Finance

The costs involved can not be avoided. Since this plan provides a periodic update of the wardrobe with beautiful, stylish clothes, the purchase of perfume and good cosmetics, you need to make sure that you have enough money for it. You can save some money in an individual box, so that you do not waste everything on things that you can do without. To keep yourself in shape, you do not need to visit the fitness center three times a week. And it is difficult to make your schedule so that you can find time for everything: work, shopping trips and regular visits to the gym. The latter can be replaced and more economical in time and means. Limit the use of fatty meat and flour products. Do it yourself at home. If you have extra money, you can shell out and natrenazher. Less eat, more yoga and no additional costs in this plan, you do not need.

If you do not mind spending extra money or not, you can go on a trip. In the salon of the first class it is quite possible to get acquainted with a wealthy businessman.

Familiarize and enter into the circle of communication you need in a businesslike way, without a romantic bias. Dissociate yourself almost on an equal footing, that is, show him that you think him smart. Ask for help or advice on some issue.

For a modern business lady one of the most difficult tasks is that they constantly have to remind themselves that you can not immediately show all your knowledge, reveal your awareness in different spheres of life. Try to provide information little by little, do not pounce on a potential candidate for husbands sraksprosami about his personal life. Dialogue should be as natural as possible.

Further actions

Moved to developing a strategy. It is better to think about two options for the possible development of events and how you will react to them. The main strategy provides for the development of events according to the plan. An alternative strategy will come to the rescue in case everything is not quite the way you intended. It is necessary to take into account all the moments that the messenger can be trapped. Since this is still a business plan, it is not emotionally to approach the solution of this issue, as many women do, but rationally. Therefore, in case of failure of plan A, you can always take advantage of plan B, do not panic in panic.

Now, having become acquainted with the sequence and the rules for achieving the set goals, you can safely make a wish and start implementing it. You get knocked out if you think that by simply guessing the desire and sitting in expectation of a miracle, you will achieve something. Only desire, enthusiasm and work on yourself will help you achieve what you have planned.