Why women want to get married

The tendency of "independent" women, self-sufficient and not entering into official marriage, which came from Western countries, did not become widespread in Russia. Sooner or later all women come to the idea of ​​marriage. The society regulates and establishes its own rules, under which fall and love each other people, legitimizing their relationship in a family union. Often go out for love. And if this love is based on friendship and mutual respect, then we can say that such a marriage is ideal.

Why women want to get married

Strengthening relations. Sometimes women use different ways to keep a loved one. That's marriage allows you to "tie" the hands and feet of a man and gives a chance to improve relations.

Conscious marriages. It happens that people live together for many years, but do not legitimize their relationship. Subsequently, a man and a woman come to a mutual agreement on the marriage, while they are guided by the considerations of their minds, and do not act according to the will of the emotional wave.

Do not lag behind your girlfriends! It happens that women want to marry, because they think so: "All my friends and acquaintances are already married! Than I am worse? "So reasoning is not quite self-confident nature. For them, the main thing is to keep up with the girlfriends (in the school they were chasing the grades, at the Institute - for the male attention), not to remain an "old maid", and the question of who will be the spouse is not so important.

And let's try? Usually, with this approach to family formation, the probability of divorce is almost inevitable. After all, young spouses themselves do not yet realize what they need it for.

Marriage as a regular plan in life. As often happens - by the end of the Institute the girl knows that she should get married. And the husband should be exactly the same as she described it in the plan. This type of marriage is inherent in those clear, following the fulfilled plan of the girls. All would be nothing, but only the partner was not asked his opinion on that plan. Therefore, because of further disagreements, marriage can disintegrate.

It's time to get married. The girl suddenly realizes that it's time for her. In this case, a girl can only graduated from school or vice versa will soon celebrate her thirtieth birthday. The choice is not dictated by age. The meaning of marriage is, as a tribute to tradition, as a concession to my mother and father, finally, to have a family. Such girls use their free choice.

Marriage of convenience. It is believed that such marriages are the most persistent. Despite the fact that this is a calculated variant of marriage, pursuing its own personal interests (material, psychological).

Child. Women try to have children, being married, to have legal children. The reason why, in this case, women want to marry is the fulfillment of the desire to have and take care of their children, feeling a reliable support in the form of a family.

In all types of variants of marriage, the only goal is to marry, but the motives that push marriage are still different.

So, what is the need to get married? It turns out that even at the genetic level, the procreation instinct is responsible for the realization of the process of creating a family. So it was with the primitive communal system, and so it is now. It is noteworthy that marriage for a woman was at all times decisive, was more significant than for a man. Traditionally, the status of a married woman made her position in society higher. In the province, women always had a fear of "staying with the girls", since the power of prejudice "rules" in these places and here they strictly follow the tradition.

Often, long cohabitation, called a civil marriage, displaces an official marriage, although the latter is considered preferable. Many lovers for a start decide to live together for a while, to "test" the sincerity of feelings and appreciate each other in their daily life before registering their relationship with the registry office. Sometimes a civil marriage is delayed, and young, no longer finding the point in registering a marriage, refuse to formalize relations without thinking about the possible consequences. Is it correct?

It happens that some of the existing situations in a young family can not be solved without the help of existing family legislation. After all, if a woman is married, any property and other disputable issues can be resolved by law. The couple has everything in common: life, problem solving and sharing of joy, mutual assistance and mutual responsibility, but according to God's word, the family is a close bond of kindred souls.