Not many women or girls manage to get an orgasm the first time. But there are varieties that a woman can get. It is clitoral, uterine or vaginal. But the most common is the clitoral, which requires the simulation of the muscles of the vagina and the clitoris. For this you need to relax. Do not think about anything, just forget yourself. Neither your figure, nor the smell of a partner, nor the lighting of a room should bother you. If you think about the bad, you can not reach orgasm during sex. For relaxation, take a bath or drink a good wine.
Also one of their good inventions is masturbation. It will help you deal with your body, and with what you need for your partner. And for men it turns on especially. Encourage him to join you.
And what to do when you are not ready for intimacy? And he is burning with desire. In this case, either sex can take place, or not. And this can lead to some disagreement between you. Lubricants will help in this case. But some cause allergies, so carefully choose and read the instructions.
Also you can help get a classic porn movies, download on the Internet or buy in the nearest store. Invite your partner to watch your chosen movie in your bedroom or bed. He will be ready for any feats after the show.