So, is it true that in our time a strong woman is a weak man? Why does a strong girl wear a guy in her arms? Not in a literal sense, of course, but figuratively, although here one could even say "wears around your neck". Of course, one can not say with absolute accuracy that this is true. And that real men: strong, courageous, courageous and responsible does not exist, there were only effeminate guys? I doubt if it's fair. To each of us in life there were such men, different ages and statuses, family positions, but still met - so I want to believe that not everything is lost. However, it can not be denied that the percentage of men who are likened to girls is growing, which plunges everyone, especially women, into sorrow. After all, and so "for ten girls according to statistics" you know how many guys. And you need to subtract from these nine guys alcoholics and drug addicts, men with non-traditional orientation. And what will remain? More precisely, who? Soon a real war will begin among women for normal men. How can a woman not become strong?
Well, and if there are no jokes, why are these processes taking place? Why do men weaken, lose the line between the sexes? Why do women become strong and responsible, if before they could just sit at home, embroider a cross and bring up numerous children?
Do you know what people call it? "For that fought for it and ran". Most recently, the whole world shuddered under powerful revolutionary movements, with flags and banners chanting that they want equality of the sexes. What is only one feminism worth! Women who risked instead of the usual skirts and dresses to put on their pants and smoke in the camera lens, strive for career growth and generally do not keep up with the men. We ourselves wanted to be strong and independent - that's got it. Although, of course, to attribute this ideology to all women do not need: most of us still would like to be feminine, soft and slightly subject to men. Depend on them, rely on them. To know that they can rely on this strong shoulder of their man, and that behind him you can always hide from life's vicissitudes.
Probably, it was all these fashion trends and Western trends that made us so, changed the man and the woman in places. Although another interesting thing: where did these trends originate in the West? However, there are always emerging interesting movements, and we happily intercept them and try on ourselves, paying tribute to fashion. And, surprisingly, sometimes we even sincerely believe that this will bring us happiness!
That's why the man became so weak? Here the question is not even in the physical development of his musculature - this is a completely different matter, although it is very unfortunate to see a young man with a pretty "beer" tummy (as well as a girl who does not watch for herself - but this is everyone's personal business). We are talking about the weakness of the moral, the spiritual. Where are the sluggish and pliable "plasticine" men who have never achieved anything in their lives, and what's more, they do not even want to do it. What for? If at first there are loving parents who will provide everything necessary. Then there will be a wife who will take over all the homework and have time to build a career more abruptly than her man. And why strain again? It's like some kind of genetic malfunction. The man has mellowed now, not the one gone: and the blame for that is the temptations that await them behind every turn of life. At us they too are, and considerable, but we somehow harden them.
A strong woman is a consequence of the emergence of weak men. After all, someone must be strong! It all began, perhaps, with the fact that the family ceased to be the highest value in society. Again, a lot of temptations began to interfere with the stable devotion of the spouses - someone began to look for someone on the side to brighten up the dull everyday routine. Someone with a head plunged into a new hobby and forgot about the family. And most often this "someone" was a man, since he is more inclined to weakness and the concept of a family is not as strong as that of women on a subconscious level. And, left alone, in 30-35 years at the broken trough, having two children in his arms and a couple of years of experience in the meat-packing plant, it is difficult to understand: what to do next? And in fact it is necessary to live, it is necessary to raise children on legs. So the woman put the burden on herself, went to look for a better fate. And next to her now was not a wayward lazy guy, but a weak loving boy who listened to her every team and served as a chain home dog. Only the use of it was not particularly from him, as he was languid and lack of initiative. They found each other, such couples: a strong woman and a weak man, a weak woman and a strong man. Only with the years of the first became more and more, unfortunately. If not, the woman was left alone, knowing that the burden on her neck in the form of such a man is just an extra burden.
A man did not want to work weak, but wanted to live well. So the man went to Alfonso - in general, became a prostitute in trousers. And all because some of the women were lucky with money and they could live without straining. And to him, so cute and cute, with an angelic smile and curly curls, a cherub, he had to work, not sparing himself. He was tired, a cherub. Tired, he wanted a sweet life - and turned into financial slavery for a strong but stupid woman. Here go and understand: is it good to be strong, so that you can spend the last few years with a weak man?
After a strong man the same strong woman will not tolerate: the competition is harsh, and it's hard to get along with them together, the commanders. So it turns out: they wanted to be independent of men - they became independent of men. And now men depend on us. Now a strong girl is carrying a guy in her arms, feeding from a spoon, like a little child. Not always, of course, but it happens. It is a pity that time can not be turned back and fall into the times of knights and ladies, in order to enjoy the society of normal men with might and main!