In our culture, the attitude towards sex is very deeply felt as an optional part of life. In Asia, a different attitude to sex. In some countries today girls study the art of marriage rooms before marriage. Daoist practices allow you to better understand your needs and partner's needs, help to acquire a number of "technical" skills of owning your body, and due to this, sensitivity increases, there is a choice from more opportunities: to have sex slowly, quickly, for long ... The main thing is that it will be pleasant, joyful and interesting. Of course, one must acquire practical skills of Taoist masters not from books or articles, but in communication with an experienced teacher. Here are some tips for those who want to achieve Taoist harmony in sex. Imagine how you want it to happen. We did all this once, when we thought about how it would be for the first time, on our first dates with our loved ones. It is worth regularly returning to these reflections. Techniques to achieve orgasm, I can teach almost any, but the beauty of what is happening gives a romantic atmosphere, which should create the young lady herself.
Make a holiday with your own hands. If you want a holiday in a long relationship, arrange it. Learn yourself and give your loved one a card. Women have a clear conviction that if he likes, then he must guess how you like. The longer I lead seminars for women, the more I see that women do not understand - a man very much wants to satisfy a woman both emotionally and sexually. Therefore, if a man does not do what you want from him, he probably did not understand what you like so much. Moreover, women rarely find out for themselves how they like it, plus during the life erogenous zones migrate. I would recommend the girl herself to understand what she likes. Once it was nice so, but now it's completely different. Stroke yourself and understand how best. Well, and most importantly - tell him. Draw a map: where, how and what. Organize space for sex. On the first dates everything is beautiful: the candles are burning, the music is picked up, the fresh bed is ... Then we start in the bedroom to eat, work, talk, sleep, in the afternoon there play children ... The couple's bedroom is a sacred space. Different classes and other people create a completely unnecessary situation there. This should be a place only for the two of you. In addition to women, no one will do it. The woman is the keeper of the essence of the relationship. Allocate this place, drink it. This is an ongoing process, and it must be done without fatigue.
Communicate for sex
This is the most useful advice that you can give about sex. Sex does not begin with undressing, kissing and lingerie, it starts with communication. And the space for sex is not only a physical space, it is also a space of relations. One of the most asexual things a woman can do is to tell a man how to live and what to do. Count how much you give advice. If you count more than three per hour, you are very much sorted. No possession of intimate muscles will fix this. Support the man in his power. Pay attention to its achievements, successes and valuable qualities. Find what you admire and maintain admiration in yourself. This is the most erogenous zone of a man.
Update your home wardrobe
I heard complaints from men that she got up in the morning, painted, dressed, kissed me and left. Returning, first of all washed, removes lenses, puts on terrible glasses and an old T-shirt. I so envy the people with whom she works! You need to be beautiful first of all for your man. Open the wardrobe. If among the things for the house you will find those in which you do not want to go out, throw them away. An important warning for those who want to learn "technical" sexual receptions on books: now you can find a lot of tips about what exercises should be done for intimate muscles. They are at first sight quite safe, but they are not designed for the fact that you will perform them long and well. Practice should teach how to contract muscles, and how to relax them. Excessive "injection" of intimate muscles often deprives a woman of the opportunity to become a mother. If you are tasked with deepening, updating, refreshing experiences in sex, practice with those who professionally teach. Just like you dance with the coach. Since there are no diplomas in oriental practices and it is impossible to refer to an educational institution, one must be guided by common sense. My master said: "A person can teach what he himself knows." In female practices there are several stages: virginity, the beginning of sexual relations, pregnancy, childbirth, recovery after childbirth, menopause. You can really teach only those levels of practice that you have lived. That is, a woman who did not prepare with the help of these practices to her own childbirth can not teach them. Be afraid of guarantees - here they can not be. I suggest using the same criteria as when choosing a doctor: experience, reputation, feedback. Since the sphere of education is very intimate, personal contact is important, it is necessary that there should be a feeling that this is your own person.