Very many events taking place in our lives are regarded by each person in different ways. Someone thinks that luck and getting the desired result is the result of constant and hard work, and negative cases and illnesses are the result of incorrect behavior and not quite healthy way of life. Others see in each event the finger of fate or at least some sign.
Someone without hesitation accepts everything that gives him life, and the other reads signs around and waits for the most important event in his life, not noticing that she passes by, and all that positive thing that happens to him is a great miracle. Believe or not believe in the omens and the outlines of fate is the personal choice of everyone. The main thing is moderation, even in such a belief. There are such coincidences that persecute the people from the very childhood, they do not always pay attention to them, usually you remember them much later, when everything has already happened, but they are there and it is pointless, like, however, to dwell on it.
I believe - I do not believe
To believe something, including in your life, prepared by fate, you need to have a well-developed intuition. It is not at all. In this case, it is necessary to not forget that what you can find a sign of fate, in fact, is an accident that took place to be. Some people believe that there must be a balance of forces in the Community and if it is violated, then it must be restored urgently. In order for a person to understand this, the Universe itself sends him special signals. Someone sees them, believes in them, and follows instructions, changing their lives and restoring the necessary balance of power in the world. If you identify yourself with a person who believes in destiny, in the predestination of everything, as well as in signs of fate, then the main thing for you should be the ability to see the sign of him. Further it is already easier - you just follow all the signs, thereby changing my life.
If you do not like this and do not even try to see and recognize the signs of fate, then you are most likely a materialist who believes only in his strength and ability to change his destiny independently. It's not bad at all, maybe even a hundred times better to decide everything yourself and without looking back, to create your own life with your zhuruki, than to wait for some incomprehensible sign from nowhere. Such people, unambiguously, are easier to live in, but sometimes you want to make the destiny smile, and its smile, most often, hides in the signs of fate. I think that the most optimal option is to see all the signs, but to follow them or not to solve them on their own, not to rely on fate in everything, witfanatichnost in such matters has never led to anything good.
Coincidence or chance
Many people, not believing in signs, believe that this or that event is just a coincidence or a combination of circumstances. But if such events are repeated in your life not once, then you should not take them as an accident, most likely, the universe wants to reach you or deliver something. There are occasions in life that we consider already those accomplished events that should have been guarded, but in the end it turns out that this was just a warning about a more significant danger.
For example, in my life there was a case when a thief tried to get into our apartment, but I somehow frightened him and he ran away, practically taking nothing. We all thought that we were miraculously avoided robbery, fortified the castle and forgot about this case. But some time passed and our dacha was robbed. It was exactly the same day in the courtyard that there was not even our dog, which we gave to our friends for the time of the hunt. It turns out that the first attempt at robbery was some kind of warning from above about what happened next. It is these signs of fate that are difficult to distinguish and recognize.
Most likely, in the life of each of you there are such coincidences, to classify and notice immediately, which is very difficult. Already after a while, turning back, we understand that this or that event was a landmark in our life, but then we passed by without noticing and not understanding what the Universe is trying to tell us. Very often such coincidences or sign events how to know?) happen in the fate of two loving people whose fates are connected. For example, people met, fell in love with each other, but for some reason, their life paths diverged. After a few years they met again and now are not ready to let a friend go forever. Now they are sure that they were created for each other and their first meeting, like the second one, was not accidental.
What place in our life should occupy the signs of fate?
It is very important that every person understands that such signs can both exist in time, and be invented, a person who believes in them can simply accept ordinary events and coincidences of the sign of destiny. If you do not dwell on the fact that this or that event in our life speaks about something or points to the most correct path, then you easily distinguish the real omen from the fictitious. There are in the life of frequent falls of any figures, dates of birth, names, cases of return to one and the same place, a person. In general, the mass of coincidences or accidents ... knows? Pay attention to this person usually begins much later, when it compares all the events together and brings a certain line.
Psychologists confirm that basically people who sincerely believe in fate and its signs are simply very afraid of independence in life. They do not want to make important and responsible decisions that will have a significant impact on their lives, and therefore try to focus on such signs. This shows their inner insecurity, about the unwillingness to leave the image of "I am a child", even in adulthood. It is unlikely for an adult person to run around with wide-open eyes and look around for signs of fate and omens. Nobody says that one can not believe in beautiful coincidences, unexpected meetings and unplanned acquaintances, we just need to be guided by the principle: "Whatever happens, everything is the best."