Of course, if you ask the question: can you really love in fifteen years old children of this age, many will answer in the affirmative. But, everyone understands that at fifteen, we are hyperbolized and look at the world through rose-colored glasses. But what about the reality? At what age can you really love? And in general, does age affect what you really want to love?
Most likely, the ability to love depends not on age, but on upbringing, perception of the world and mind. Some people and at thirty do not realize what others understand at the age of fifteen. And this is not always affected by social status and relationships with parents. Here we are talking about the concept of responsibility.
Many teenagers at fifteen years cry and cry about what they love madly. But what kind of love is this? Often at this age everyone falls in love with ideals. Especially girls. Just at different times there are different standards. Now the ideal guy that you can, but rather need to love is a representative of an informal culture who must necessarily play in a band, skateboard, be a parker or have a bike. Such a young man can show his friends and tell you about how you love him. For this, you can cry at night and worry because he does not pay attention. But, in fact, such a love invented. It just seems to the girls that they need to love and they are looking for ideals imposed by the Internet and television. Such feelings quickly pass. Of course, there are also tragic cases when teenagers reach suicide. But, in fact, this is not due to the fact that they were in love for real. Simply, children want to attract attention and prove to the whole world that they are so unhappy, because no one likes them.
There are other cases when teenagers are sincerely worried because of their feelings. But at this age, the concept of "love" is better equated with the notion of "like." Yes, of course, a girl can really like a boy, and she wants to be with him. But hardly a young lady thinks about what will happen after her dream is accomplished. Of course, the modern generation grows up very quickly. In this he is helped by an uninterrupted flow of information, which the young mind still does not know how to filter. The problem is that teenagers begin to associate themselves with what they see on the monitor screens. And this: permissiveness, free relations and the like. They do not understand that love is a big responsibility. And the responsibility is not so much for themselves, as for another person. After all, the Fox correctly said in all the famous work: "We are responsible for the one who has been tamed." People tame with love, and when they realize that they can not be responsible for their soul mate, they cause pain. At a young age, such experiences are very tragic. But teenagers do not understand this. Kisses at the moon and beer on the bench - that's how their love looks. They still do not realize that drinking and smoking is not cool. And if a loved one behaves this way, he does not need to praise and admire. About him you need to worry. This example is just one of those things that are not thought about at fifteen.
But, are all teenagers so infantile? In fact, there are exceptions. There are really wise guys that are not the same for years. These people are able to really love. Even at their young age they understand that smoking and drinking is not cool at all. Often, these girls communicate with older and wise guys and girls who act correctly, and not fashionable. Also, these young people never choose a guy according to the pattern established by the latest trend of fashion of modern society. They take a long time to choose someone who is really interesting to them, like a person. For them, the guy is not just another opportunity to brag to his girlfriends. This is the person with whom she plans the future and builds a serious relationship. Of course, with age, priorities change, and love can pass. But, whatever it was, at that moment it really is real, because the girl understands her responsibility for the one who is with her. She will not be happy that her boyfriend drinks six bottles of beer more than his friend and skips classes or couples.
On the contrary, she will try to help him get rid of bad habits and make sure that he does not start his studies. Such girls are very erudite. They even at the age of fifteen understand what will really be necessary in life, and what will flush like dust.
Of course, they also make mistakes, but do not try to prove to the whole world that they are the most intelligent. On the contrary, they listen to the advice of older friends and girlfriends who already have experience and can really advise something right and wise. Such girls are not capricious over trifles, or, at least, try not to do it. If a loved one is older, they try to reach his level, grow up, understand and help everyone than they can. Sometimes, in some things, these teenagers can be much smarter than people, older than themselves for several years. Of course, in some ways they remain children, but their behavior is very different from the behavior of many peers. By the way, like the world view. Such girls, if necessary, can enter adulthood, where there is no parental care, but there is a life, financial problems and many other things that teenagers do not think about. They always try to solve their problems on their own, learn to earn money, and even looking at the world through rose-colored glasses, they can still quite well consider the harsh reality. They mature before others and in some ways it's a minus. But in another - this is a big plus. It is these adolescents who can truly love in fifteen years, because feelings for them are not an opportunity to assert themselves and something to prove. This is the state of the soul for which they are willing to learn, change and sacrifice.