How to throw a guy without tears?

For some reason, there was a strong idea that the guys throw girls more often. However, throwing the guy himself is much harder. Men do not stop anything from parting, and women endure to the last. That's why a feeling is created that women are constantly abandoned. If your feelings are cold, but you can not leave your boyfriend, you should listen to the following tips.


All people and relationships are different. Someone swears every day, others are always quiet and calm, in the third pair, the rift is only brewing. A universal recipe for throwing a guy does not exist. Of course, if it's not the case when he changed you or hit you, then the women do not have a strategy, they go scandalously.

But how to part with a guy, if there is no reason, your man is affectionate and faithful. Is it worth it to invent a reason to leave your boyfriend or can you just leave without an explanation? Do not offend the boy without an excuse.

To begin with it is necessary to be defined, that you want parting bezvariantov. Decide for yourself, but do you really feel good alone, do not you become bored, you may wonder what you will live on. The girl should be sure that parting is the only and final way out of the situation. You must be sure that you want to stay alone. If there are doubts, it is better to wait out for a while. After you give it up, it's impossible to return a good relationship. He will always suspect you of insincerity. It is better to wait until the moment when you will not get tired of everything to such an extent that it will not be tolerated.

For many, it is very important to choose the right place for parting. If you have not lived together, then try to choose a neutral territory that will not be related to your shared memories. It is best to choose a multi-purpose place, in case your boyfriend can not keep himself safe. For those who live together, alas, there are no options. We'll have to leave the house, insisting that the guy collect his things. It's very difficult to part with a guy if you live together. During the time when he collects things, you will quit swearing. If you leave home at all, so as not to swear, it is possible that yours will not even collect things.

You must certainly radiate confidence in what you are saying. If you have already decided that this is the right step, do not go backward, the guy should see that you are serious and return the relationship, he can not ever. Try not to dress too sexy or seductive, it only strengthens the suffering of the young man.

The most important mistake is a beautiful phrase from the movie: "Let's make friends". No friends! For him it will be an occasion to meet the swami again and you can give yourself slack. In addition, men have a very developed sense of self-importance, they can return you, and then throw them. So do not be friends with the former.

Do not be afraid to be trivial, do not be distracted by unnecessary conversations. Speak strictly on the case, no memories and explanations. Do not humiliate him, tell me what was good, but he is not your man. Do not use specific accusations, for example, "you constantly deceive me," "you go out with friends on weekends". Speak only the general phrases: "love has disappeared somewhere." If you say specific charges, then the guy will be able to react quickly and promise to fulfill all your requirements. Yes, and you can believe that it will improve and change, and there before reconciliation is near.

In the event that he starts to persuade you, think only about yourself. Try not to listen to his words, but remember only that which does not suit you. Think about how much time you lost on these failed relationships, and now you still have to spend time on his complaints and conversations about anything. Of course, there were pleasant memories, but it's not worth living for them.

Avoiding future contacts with your ex is almost impossible. Social networks, mutual friends, relatives, everyone will resemble ovashih relations. It is likely that the former will start to call and clarify the relationship, can come to your home. Do not take it to heart. Yes, I'm sorry for the guy. But you do not owe anything to anyone, your happiness is in the first place. Try to avoid contact with your boyfriend.

Any break is a difficult test for both sides. Nestoit aggravate the experience and reprimand him with all the bad things that he did. Believe, he will remember this himself, alone with himself. Be wiser and more generous, you not only throw it, you also strike at its vanity. After he left, there may be a feeling of emptiness and hopelessness, at some moments you'll be ready to call him yourself. Get distracted, call your girlfriends. Go to the club or salonkrasoty. In general, try to live a full life, and do not cry in the pillow. In a few days, a feeling of despair will begin to pass, and you will be able to live longer. Do not give in to momentary weakness.

After parting, do not revel in your own boldness and resolve, it's ugly to tell a common acquaintance that you left him. Tell me that it happened, you made the decision together. It is necessary to save face in any situation. Do not openly bump into a spree, reputation is very hard to restore.

Let's sum up. It is necessary to leave beautifully, without reproaches of the chandlery. Be discreet, but unshakable.