Parental love is the main means of education of love for children from the neighbor, to nature, to everything that surrounds it.
There are psychological methods for studying the feelings of parents. The main feature of these methods of learning is that parental love is the beginning and the end of all family relationships, as well as the result of all feelings in marriage. Just as each individual is individual, as the spouses' individual relationship to each other is, relations with their child are also not simple. In your child, we can love the reflection of ourselves, the repetition of a person you love, or, conversely, similarities with an unpleasant person. The child still feels the love of his parents from the cradle, and takes it through the mother's milk. Children need to show their love constantly both physically and morally. They must feel and understand that they are loved. Some words "I love you not enough."
Yes, today it is very difficult sometimes to understand our children, but this is the most important task of our whole life. And the more you pay attention to it, the more you will be surrounded by this love in the future and those around you.
If a child receives the necessary amount of parental love, then he will respect himself and those close to him, will walk hard in life and pass this feeling on to succeeding generations.
There are cases when it seems to us not at all important that for the child at that time may seem a tragedy of his entire life. In this case, the child tries to reach us, because he knows that parents are support and understanding, which then turn into love.
Many are mistaken when the child is kept in a strong severity, saying "he is afraid - then respects." This should not be done in any case. You grow up gradually in the child cruelty, which he can throw out already in adulthood, to his children, spouse or wife. And he will not love you, he will simply be afraid.
Ross Campbell, the person who studied the relationship between children and parents advises, to find time for physical touch more often than when you only change or bathe a child, i.e. because of the need.
Stroke the child on the head, touch it in a friendly manner to the shoulder, squeeze his pen - this will be the kinesthetic answer to the question: "What should true parental love be like." Touchings carry a lot of information, for example, by touching, we can convey rejection, irritation, attention, hatred and of course love.
Parental love, the main means of education of love in children is promoted by the factor, how they received in childhood love and in sufficient quantity. Although many people who did not know their parents' lives in life, cope with the upbringing of children and invest in them what they would like to have themselves.
The art of fostering love for children is to invest in a child, not what we want, conveniently and like, but what they need and what they need.
In our time, life changes with furious speed, the old leaves, and in its place comes everything new. This applies to the main means of raising children - love. If earlier the children knew the word "it is necessary", now it has been replaced by the words "let's try, it can work out". And this comes from an excess of love in the family. As a lack of love, and the excess of it attracts a number of factors that can hinder the child in later life. When a child is allowed everything, and so some parents show their love, it becomes selfish, in the world for him no one exists. He also puts himself above even his parents, and treats them like a magic wand that fulfills all his desires. But this wand may one day lose its power and then the most terrible will begin. Such children do not have friends, and if they are then friends only because of some benefit. In their life it will be very difficult for them to get settled. Many are looking for support in bad companies, where others do not care about selfish or not. That's when parents begin to ask questions "why", "and because of what, because we are all him." And the problem is only in the parents themselves.
Children are not porridge, which you can not spoil with oil. In education should be clearly defined as a love of so strictness, both affectionate and exacting. But the main thing you need to feel when a child needs help, and when you need exacting. And you must be the first to come to the rescue and give advice or vice versa to put everything in its place and demand explanations. Just do not overdo it!
No wonder they say "Children are flowers of life"! After all, flowers also cause positive emotions in people - caress, tenderness, joy. And when in our life there comes such a crucial moment as the birth of a child - we all need to understand that this is a small flower that complements the whole field of flowers, and also that it is a link in our chain of society that we educate ourselves. Therefore, the original and main love is a parent, as we will present it to our children, so it will echo, filling all the space around us.