This also helps to be, which draws more and more every day. After coming home from work, you need to cook, wash dishes, do lessons with your child. Where is the place for romance? But it is she who brings happiness in a relationship. Romance makes family life easier, more airy. It is a component of love. And there is no it, and love begins to fade. And this leads to irreparable negative consequences. So how to keep love and romance in a marriage?
Further in this article, we present for your consideration a few simple but effective tips. Try to follow them, and you will see that your relationship has become much more diverse, there will be a feeling of happiness, interest in each other, the pleasure of sharing. In order to make this all a reality, you do not need large financial or physical costs. You just need to expand your worldview a little, and look at some things from the other side. The recommendations that we have here can help save the relationship from the gap even if the couple decided to disperse. After all, often, the disintegration of the family has fairly simple reasons. People may show insufficient attention to each other, they may lack mutual understanding and display of tender, sensitive feelings. So, if your relationship is in a crisis situation, do not rush with their gap.
One of the main mistakes of every woman is to do everything perfectly. But how can you keep love and romance in your marriage, if you start to turn from a smart and versatile wife into a robot-housewife? Do they really think that men really appreciate what she cooks every day, washing, cleaning, ironing, washing, wiping, and then she lies on the couch and puts her husband to death with reproaches that she came tired of work and Here, how many have made all. After all, the average man, he does not notice at all! They do not care how many times a week you washed the floor, a day later, or did not wash the month. If women really think that men have some business what kind of shirt to wear and whether it suits everything else that is worn on it. Whether socks are suitable for the color of shoes, or why to change underwear every day, they are deeply mistaken. Of course, this does not mean that you do not need to clean the apartment, or wash your husband's clothes. This shows that for you, dear ladies, it is important to devote more time to your appearance and give your beauty to your husband. He wants to see you not in a greasy dressing gown with a tail on his head. And in clean, fitting things, emphasizing your dignity, with well-groomed hair and, at least light, make-up. He needs a wife paying attention to him, and not a housekeeper.
Each of us has his own desires and dreams. Some people dream of attending a concert with their beloved band. Others - ride a motorcycle, etc. If your half wants to go to the premiere of a new film, buy two tickets for him and go to the cinema together. If your favorite person dreams of a boat trip, or a new mobile phone - everything is in your hands. Or maybe he dreams of jumping for fishing, or hunting. Do not hold it and even be the initiator of it. This will bring you both great joy, your half because her wish is fulfilled, and to you because you have done a pleasant thing to your beloved man. Do not focus only on your desires. Give your husband what he wants so badly, and you'll both be happy.
Do not think that gifts should be given only on holidays. Give him something nice, some trinket on an ordinary weekday. Let it be a small and inexpensive gift, but nice. This you once again show him that he is dear to you, what you think about him, and love him. Maybe he once muttered that he had seen something and would have liked the same. And you all shake your head, and with the appropriate opportunity, buy it. Only gifts should be given sincerely, from the bottom of the heart, and not because you read it here, and so it is necessary.
It will be very romantic if you start writing to each other notes with beautiful words, pleasant wishes and confessions of love. And leave them in prominent places, for example, near the computer, in the bedroom on the pillow, attach to the refrigerator, on the mirror in the bathroom. Naturally, you do not need to glue them all over the house. Good for a little bit. This should cause a pleasant sensation, not irritation. Everything should be in moderation.
Use modern computer technologies to help you create collages from your photos, or create a slide show for romantic music. This will help you remember the pleasant moments of your life. And it's so nice.
Have a romantic dinner. Send the children to your grandmother so you can devote to each other. It is not necessary to prepare ten dishes. Let it be an easy slicing of fruits, a bottle of your favorite wine, unobtrusive music, candles and you two. Do you already feel the aroma of tenderness and love? And in reality it is even steeper.
In the morning try to wake up before her husband, at least for 15-20 minutes. It is necessary for you to have time to wash, comb and make up. You can also make sandwiches and make tea. Your spouse will be pleasantly surprised and will appreciate your efforts.
If the morning starts with a smile to your loved one and wish him a good morning, and he gives you the same answer, then you get a charge of positive emotions for the whole day.
Often kiss each other, hug, say kind words, thank for the service you have done. And the most important thing in all this is to love. If you love a person in real life, then these tips will help you keep her and romance in marriage for long years of living together!