No one can dispute the fact that the beautiful half of humanity is more sensitive than the opposite sex. Emotionality is the most characteristic feature for women. Due to the fact that we are able to show our feelings, emotions for the most part are never suppressed, but, on the contrary, are stimulated. And what if the second half does not have actions that contribute to the expression of emotions in women? Trying to share your experiences with your beloved, do not you find feedback with him? What can this tell us about?
There are several reasons for the emotional coldness of men.
Education
Since childhood, upbringing plays a very important role in the future life of any person. As for men, it should be noted here that upbringing can make a small boy as a soft, sympathetic, and sufficiently tough and solid person. After all, expressions such as "do not cry, you are a man" or "do not be like a girl" give rise to a so-called reverse effect. Categorically refusing to seem rannimymokruzhayuschim, boys, emotions and feelings are sometimes replaced by cruelty and cold.
Interrelations between the inter-parents
The process of childhood lays a very strong foundation for the restoration of the person's personality. So, for example, parents who did not show any signs of affection for the child, and even among themselves, the relationship was built in such a family with the presence of cold. In this case, it can be assumed that the child, becoming an adult, will copy the manner of his parents' behavior, since one can say that they taught him this. With such a man it will be necessary to put up with the fact that you will not hear the words of affection and love, this does not mean that he does not have feelings, they are, he is not used to expressing them simply.
Elements of the tragic past
Here it should be noted that if a man, for example, at an adolescent age had unhappy love, especially if she was accompanied by deception and betrayal, is the reason that in the future he will adhere to such concepts as: "around one deception" and "not trusting except yourself" . Perhaps at the end of time, unpleasant events will erase from memory, and there will be an opportunity to build strong relationships with the second half.
Roots of man's origin
Since ancient times, the man has been assigned a number of duties, such as for example, food production, hunting for wild animals. It is also worth noting that the temperament of a successful breadwinner should not be soft and sensitive. In ancient times in men, the quality of a warrior was highly valued. And this presupposes the presence of strength, rigidity, firm temperamental temperament.
It is interesting that Canadian scientists conducted an investigation to determine the zones of the brain responsible for the emotional part of the behavior. Thus, it was revealed that in men, for the emergence of emotions, there is a strictly defined division of the brain. And as for women, here, on the contrary, the zones responsible for emotionality are present both in the left and in the right hemisphere of the brain. And here we can conclude that the man in principle physiologically arranged differently. Therefore, one can not look at the same problem with a woman equally. Let's just say that men reason logically, while women are more abstract. You can give an example. The wife returns home, and begins to share his experiences with the second half, and taking advantage of the fact that the man silently listens, gives out a whole barrage of emotions. But the man is not interested in emotions and emotions, in this situation he silently reflects on how this or that problem could arise, and what needs to be done to avoid it.
Or is it possible to conclude that this is indifference?
In fact, it is difficult to draw boundaries between such concepts as indifference and emotional coldness. All because they are almost the same in appearance. Very often, women try to justify any act of their chosen one in the desired direction. But this is a mistake.
In order to give an objective assessment of its second half, it is necessary to look at this situation from the neutral side. Ie, it is necessary to discard your desires and feelings towards the partner and take a sober look at things. The best interpretation of a person can be obtained through the evaluation of his own actions. Take a closer look and make an objective conclusion for yourself.