Removed the idealization of partners. The masks and the truth of the person are removed is visible not to the armed eye. The third stage is the struggle for power. If you do not properly delineate the territory, you can be in a neighboring state. In this case, not that love, but even an acquaintance in your boyfriend you will not find.
Having won a man, you need to remain the same as you were, trying to conquer him, and not the one you normally are. So I advise psychologists when they are approached for help. The sexual sphere of communication between a guy and a girl is one of the most difficult topics for self-understanding. In no other area of human life is there such a number of underwater reefs and stones as in the sexual. The relationship of people without sex is not harmonious. The term "sexless", which means "without sex" came to us from the English language and became actively used in discussions in mass media, on Internet sites, including heartbreaking diaries.
Abstinence or sexless, in our lives, vesh is not rare, but correspondingly harmful, for both men and women. For women, due to stagnation of blood in the pelvis, gynecological problems and constantly arising unresolved psychological issues may arise. In men, changes in the prostate gland, stagnation in the vessels, which leads to a decrease in potency, are possible. Abstinence often leads to depression, irritability and nervous breakdown. As Freud said, "all suffering and suffering is sublimated to other areas of life."
Causes of abstinence from sex can be set, fatigue, stress, illness, distance. But at some point all this disappears and again I want an elementary pleasure - having sex. They say that women are much simpler in this matter, since active activity, mainly belongs to men. And how do you know that a guy has not had a girlfriend for a long time? Well, firstly, this is seen in the behavior. Secondly, the guys after a long abstinence from sexual relations and relationships in general, like there is a huge desire, but it does not work at the same time.
The reason is very simple - as athletes who have stopped training for a while, will not be able to beat their own record. At such times, men are very vulnerable and they need help to restore their former strengths. They can be helped only by a girl who understands, loves, but must remember. That in such cases it is impossible to hurry. The boy needs physical and psychological comfort. It would be appropriate to have a romantic dinner with candles, with intimate conversation. As ever, tactile caresses are needed, in more than usual. Even if this time nothing has happened to a man, do not get upset. Blame yourself, arrange scenes of tears and hysterics, scandals and make of everything that's happening a problem. So far, nothing terrible has happened. Today did not work out, it means that it will be tomorrow or the day after tomorrow. The main thing is not to make a problem out of this. But is not peace and happiness worth the effort?
If the psyche is in order, then more often it is necessary to think about physical health. To the phrase "and how long the guy did not have a girl" did not occupy our consciousness. After all, abstinence or sexless, subsequently, often leads to frequent sexual intercourse, and sometimes even disorderly nature. So choose for yourself what's best!