The choice of the date is determined by a number of factors. This is the place of residence, climatic conditions, even the working schedule of the groom, the bride, their relatives and friends. And yet we must not forget: the whole future life together may depend on the correct choice of the date of the marriage. Will she be happy or filled with difficulties and quarrels?
For centuries and even millennia people have noticed certain trends: families that have weddings in certain months and days have been strong. And vice versa. Folk wisdom and signs were not born from scratch, they appeared as a result of accumulated experience. Today we will try to bring together all that you need to know to determine a happy wedding date.
In 2015, the date of the wedding should be selected with special care - the eastern calendar is the year of the Sheep (Goats), which is always cautious and likes to calculate their actions a few steps forward. She does not like haste, insecurity and eccentricity. If you exclude these negative points, then the marriage will be happy and long.
Signs of the month of the wedding
In Russia it has long been customary to organize wedding celebrations in the fall, when the field work was over, or in the winter. This was determined by the way of life. When choosing the date of the wedding, church holidays were taken into account: no marriage was made at the wedding.
Month chose, based on the signs:
- January - completely unfavorable for concluding a marriage;
- February - strong and happy marriages;
- March - change of residence, until departure to another country;
- April - a fragile and unhappy marriage;
- May - marriage will be accompanied by adultery;
- June is the happiest month for marriage;
- July - a troubled family life;
- August is a strong family with complete understanding;
- September - calm and measured family life;
- October - many problems and little happiness;
- November - well-fed, secured and prosperous marriage;
- December - love will accompany a married couple all your life.
The best wedding date in 2015
To get a favorable date, you need to take into account the people's signs, church requirements and astrological forecasts.
When selecting a number, day of the week and month, delete the full moon, new moon and lunar eclipse. You can learn about them using the lunar calendar. It is necessary to study the church calendar. It is very undesirable that the marriage took place on the eve of the great church holidays (for example, Christmas), during the svyatok or fasting, on the days of remembrance of the deceased. If the couple decided to get married, then it should be noted that the ceremony does not take place on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday.
The most successful day for the wedding is Friday. It is controlled by the planet Venus, which patronizes all lovers. Additional plus: the possibility of wedding in the church and registration of marriage in the registry office in one day.
The date must be more precisely chosen by the lovers themselves, based on the above.
Horoscope by date of wedding
People's signs, church and lunar calendars will tell when it's best to play a wedding. But in addition to them you can use and astrological horoscope on the signs of the Zodiac:
- wedding in the period of Aries (21.03.-19.04.) - the struggle for supremacy in the family. Nominally, the main husband will be, but his wife will constantly challenge it. Stormy quarrels, followed by no less stormy reconciliation, will make the family life quite boring;
- wedding in the Taurus period (20.04.-20.05.) - calmness and stability. The wife is the keeper of the hearth, the husband is the getter. Full mutual understanding;
- wedding in the Gemini period (21.05.-21.06.) - lightness and equality. The desire for diversity, and this can be unsafe because of the possibility of treason. Common interests and sincerity help to eliminate infidelity;
- wedding in the Cancer (22.06.-22.07.) - the feelings prevail, the desire for comfort and coziness. One of the spouses will act as a child, and the other will act as his parent;
- wedding in the Lion (23.07.-22.08.) - a friendly family, giving preference to active pastime. Education, spiritual growth, continuation of the family - these are the values of such a married couple;
- wedding in the period of the Virgin (23.08.-22.09.) - Career growth is more important than attention to each other, but love and understanding are present. The family will reach a high standard of living;
- wedding in the Libra period (23.09.-22.10.) - marriage is based on love, romantic, comfortable. Mutual support and concessions to each other. The danger lies in the possible changes of both husband and wife. Exclude such a possibility can only be joint recreation and increased attention to the spouse;
- wedding in the Scorpio (23.10.-21.11.) - an unusual and passionate marriage, which will be ruled by feelings. The husband and wife will lead in turn;
- wedding in the period of Sagittarius (22.11.-21.12.) - the husband will become the main in the family. Light relationships, self-development, diversity and even some extreme;
- wedding in the period of Capricorn (22.12.-19.01.) - one family - one goal. Career growth does not contradict the family hearth. Absence of minor quarrels and domestic conflicts. Lack of attention to each other and difficulties in communication;
- wedding in the period of Aquarius (20.01.-18.02.) - free and easy marriage. Not a husband and wife, but good friends. Whichever decision the spouse takes, he will find his support from the wife;
- wedding in the period of Pisces (19.02.-20.03.) - feelings and emotions. A special relationship, spiritual closeness. The husband always listens to the opinion of the wife.
The best time for a wedding
What time of the year to play a wedding? There is no unequivocal answer to this question, because each season has its advantages and disadvantages.
Winter
magnificent white landscapes, emphasizing the beauty of a married couple;
the opportunity to arrange a photo session in the Russian style, ride a sleigh, make a great video.
Minuses:
cold, planning long outdoor activities is problematic;
high prices for fruits and vegetables, as well as for other products.
Spring
awakening nature, symbolizing the beginning of a new life;
the first leaves, the first flowers.
Minuses:
unstable weather. The difference between early and late spring is colossal;
high prices for vegetables and fruits.
Summer
warm, wedding can be celebrated both indoors and outdoors.
Minuses:
practically none.
Autumn
the first half is almost as flawless as the summer.
Minuses:
the second half is ugly and differs withering, and for a young family this is contraindicated.
Date of the wedding by date of birth
In recent years, numerology has become very popular, with the help of which the dates for making important decisions, the impact of the date of birth on fate, and much more are calculated. Therefore, it is not surprising that numerology is used to determine the date of the wedding. How to do it right?
To find out the number of wedding appointments, the date of birth of the bride and groom must be taken as the basis of the calculations. Consider the example.
The future husband was born on 4.07.1993. We calculate the individual number: 4 + 0 + 7 + 1 + 9 + 9 + 3 = 33. Next: 3 + 3 = 6. This is the individual number of the groom.
We repeat the action with the date of birth of the future wife: 30.09.1995: 3 + 0 + 0 + 9 + 1 + 9 + 9 + 5 = 36. Next: 3 + 6 = 9. This is the individual number of the bride.
Determine the total number: 6 + 9 = 15. Therefore, the wedding should be appointed on the 15th day.
But how to choose a month? Usually, preference is given to the third, fourth, sixth, ninth, tenth of the month of the birth of the future spouse. Let's return to our example. The groom was born in July, therefore, for him will be favorable: October, November, January, April, May. The bride was born in September, therefore, for her will be favorable: December, January, April, July, August. As you can see, January and April coincided. You can safely arrange a wedding in one of these months, and since the number has already been determined, then January 15 or April 15.
There is a variant of another definition of the date: from the number of days in the month, subtract the total number (in our example it is 15). In January, 31 days. Hence, 31-15 = 16. In April, 30 days. Therefore, 30-15 = 15.
Summarizing, we can say that when playing a wedding is a personal choice for a future married couple, and no one has the right to impose their opinion. But for two loving people to live together happily, one should take into account the experience accumulated by many generations.