Is there any harm from masturbation in women
Sexopathologists are well aware that people are able to experience orgasm not only during sexual intercourse. Many people admitted that this happened to them in childhood, for example, during physical education lessons during climbing on a rope or exercises on uneven bars. That is, in man, nature itself is laid, that this feeling can arise regardless of his desire. When he does not even think of anything like that. And if so, why should we consider shameful masturbation - the actions consciously aimed at achieving this very orgasm without sexual intercourse? Experts from medicine assure that, doing self-satisfaction (if there is such a desire), they do not contradict their natural nature.
A huge number of women have absorbed the ban on masturbation even in early childhood. And, having matured, such women inspire the same thing already to their daughters, and so on ad infinitum. And with regard to boys, the view of this problem is radically different. When mother sees the first signs of an erection and his increased interest in this phenomenon in a baby girl, she, as a rule, is only touched by the behavior of her child. But if the mother finds a little daughter studying her sex organs, she will most likely be horrified.
According to sexologists, in many ways this reaction of adults is due to the difference in the location of intimate organs in boys and girls. At the first sexual organ is outside, it constantly has to be picked up when sending "small need". Therefore, for men to touch their causal place is considered a natural and therefore not a harmful occupation. But in women, because of their anatomical structure, the sexual organs, on the one hand, are hidden deep inside. And on the other - they are very vulnerable to all kinds of infections. That's why moms are sure that from the medical point of view the harm from masturbation is obvious: the less likely the daughter will touch them, the less chance she will have of catching any vaginal inflammation. From the point of view of hygiene, harm from masturbation is quite possible. However, who in their right mind will "do it" with dirty hands and dusty objects on the bed?
Is there any benefit of masturbation in women?
Specialists are faced with another problem. When they are invited to give lectures among teenagers and young people, someone from the administration of the school will ask them not to mention oral sex and masturbation. Allegedly, these actions are contrary to the notion of morality. Sexologists agree to this with great reluctance. Because hushing up the question is not the best way to solve it. After all, this way you can only strengthen the negative attitude towards such actions in the consciousness of the younger generation. Whereas studies conducted by specialists show that if a girl from 12 to 16 years had masturbation experience, she would have fewer problems in the sexual sphere in adult life, rather than "modest", who avoided such actions. As you can see, there is still a benefit from masturbation.
In addition, against the backdrop of actively spreading viruses, sometimes deadly, such as HIV or hepatitis C, these disgusted versions of sexual satisfaction look much safer than traditional sexual intercourse. But then another prejudice immediately comes into force. The moralists agree with a squeak that there can be no other way out for a single person. But why should a family person serve himself if there is a reliable and reliable partner for this? In their opinion, in matrimony masturbation is immoral, because without it in such a case it is quite possible to do. But is it?
Masturbation in the family
Sexopathologists have many examples of how women who live happily with their husbands nevertheless are engaged in self-gratification for various reasons. For example, one young and very popular artist, working in the afternoon in the studio, thus caused herself an additional burst of inspiration. By the way, the sensations that this woman as a result had, differed, according to her, from those that she experienced in bed with her beloved husband.
By the way, this is a very typical example. It shows that married women are engaged in masturbation, not at all because they suffer from sexual dissatisfaction. Not at all. For them, an orgasm, caused by one's own hand, is not at all the coloring that they receive with a full sexual intercourse. Patients at the reception of sex therapists made absolutely unexpected confessions on a similar topic. One woman, for example, suffered from insomnia and once quite accidentally found that she falls asleep firmly only after self-satisfaction. The other is a successful and energetic business lady, that's how she took off stress after a busy day. The third - on the contrary, arranged a masturbation session before making an important decision: according to her, this gave her extra energy.
All of them needed it more to create some special mood, for transition from one state to another. But this will happen only if self-satisfaction does not seem to the woman something shameful, and even generally criminal. But unfortunately, the popular rumor does not help it.
Studies of specialists show that women who were engaged in self-stimulation before marriage, for example, once a week, and in marriage are ready to do this with the same frequency. However, specialists have to face and with such women who were engaged in self-gratification in their youth and who, having married, no longer dare to continue such experiments. They think this is superfluous - because now they have a permanent partner. But sexists not only do not prohibit masturbation in marriage. They even teach their patients how to properly stimulate themselves to achieve the greatest effect. In their opinion, this helps women to feel their sexuality better, to understand the peculiarities of their temperament. And this is the first step to a full life with your beloved and loving partner. That is, in addition to physiological discharge (or "charging"), the psychological benefits of masturbation are obvious, medicine confirms this by many years of observations.
Married couples, where not against self-satisfaction in marriage, should remember this: nothing so excites a man as a kind of woman who causes herself to orgasm. But only on one condition. This should be part of your shared sexual game, a complement that reinforces sensations. If you do this alone, then try not to fall into your husband's eyes. After all, he may be offended or indignant: "Do you have enough, me? Am I really so bad? "As a result, strong marital relations will be in jeopardy. This is one example of the harm of masturbation, but not of a physiological, intrafamily. Experts know that many examples.
Masturbation in men
In men, things are different: after marriage, the number of "sessions" of self-satisfaction drastically reduces to nothing. But only if they have enough joint sexual acts with his wife. If they think that sexual contacts occur less frequently than their body requires, they can resort to masturbation. Although sexologists are struggling to dispel the myth that the ingrained gland in the minds of men is that the prostate gland can suffer without regular ejaculation. Recently, doctors are increasingly claiming that the number of ejaculations in a man is born since birth. The sooner they fulfill their "norm", the ... In short, it is better to save - to last to old age.
In fact, the need for "solo sex" for men who live in a full-fledged marriage is completely different. The only situation in which self-satisfaction is really required by a spouse is when he suffers premature ejaculation. This advice is explained by the fact that a representative of the stronger sex who does not masturbate from time to time, during the sexual act, "discharge" is faster than that of a partner who periodically satisfies himself. That is, it may be useful to masturbate in the future to extend sexual intercourse with a woman.
Raising this delicate topic, of course, we can not fail to mention the cases of so-called chronic masturbation. This is a pathology, and sexopathologists do not take it into account when talking about normal, healthy people. An irresistible need for relaxation is literally every time a man feels an erection, and a woman - a sexual arousal, must be treated with a specialist. Like any deviation in the work of our body. This condition causes a lot of inconvenience to people and therefore must be corrected - the earlier, the better.
On the harm and benefit of masturbation medicine written whole treatises. But all of them can be reduced to a few tips. If you do not need self-satisfaction, if you are satisfied with the passionate and skilful behavior of your partner, then throw it out of your head. But if you had a pleasant experience of masturbation, and he only added new, vivid feelings to your family life together with your husband, do not consider yourself a criminal and do not abandon it. You do not do anything wrong. You just get one more opportunity to reconcile yourself harmoniously with reality. And also raise your sexuality to a different, previously unknown level.