About why people have sex, not having in mind the continuation of a kind, is written a lot of volumes. Of these, we are reliably known that the main goal of intimate relationships is the maintenance of good physical and psychological health. But, it turns out, having sex, we are still - incidentally - meet and their social ambitions. How? Yes, in different ways. It all depends on how you have sex, what preference do you prefer?
THE MAN'S UPPER
This pose is for some reason considered primitive or, at least, not original enough. The directors of erotic films, in any case, do not particularly favor it. Movie lovers for some reason prefer to indulge in passion in more sophisticated ways: standing on the edge of a steep rock, sitting in a car rushing at a frantic pace or at the worst in the pool (another option is on the desktop). It is clear that after such a sexual extreme, a married couple and sex in a traditional situation "face to face" may seem boring and prosaic to obscene. However, it is precisely this pose that allows a man and a woman to observe each other's emotions: by the expression of the eyes, facial expressions, makes the love act brighter and more sensual. This, in fact, is the physical proximity of people and animals. Since the last subtle emotional experiences are of no use, the main thing is to create offspring.
If you prefer this traditional posture to others - your pair is considered to be stable and harmonious. As a rule, the period of madness and violent love was already behind, and African passions were replaced by calm confidence, tenderness and warmth. Most often, the personal qualities of partners successfully complement each other. Conflict situations are usually resolved peacefully, with the help of a reasonable compromise. The leader in the family is a man. As a stronger and more experienced, he takes care of the companion of life. In sex, he also plays a leading role, since, being "under the press", the partner is practically deprived of the opportunity to help a man with any gestures. For a woman accustomed to guardianship and attention, this position is also a symbol of security, a complete merger with a beloved man.
PERSON TO THE PERSON NOT TO SEE
However, if you want the above described pose, you can find another explanation, for example, it is sometimes called the "pose of frigid wives." Although in fact, frigidity is not to blame. Coldness - yes, indifference - yes, along with a sense of alienation and even a slight contempt for the man with whom you have sex. Deciphering this position in this case is deadly simple: "How are you boring me!"
Formally, a woman seems to be involved in sex, but, in fact, she is only fulfilling her conjugal duty, having found the most convenient position, which allows not to squander your physical and emotional efforts in vain. At the same time, women's thoughts at the most intimate moment can be occupied by anything: from whitewashing the ceiling to drawing up plans for the upcoming day.
Men also often use this pose to achieve goals are not sexual in nature. This position of the bodies allows the representatives of the stronger sex to satisfy their ambitions, because, being above, the man presses on the partner (in all senses of the word). This pose entices more often people with dictatorial habits - rude, categorical, self-confident. Such never miss an opportunity to "crush under themselves" anyone, regardless of whether the partner is a business, competitor or beloved woman.
WOMAN ON TOP
Depending on the true relationship between lovers, this position, like the previous one, can be viewed from different angles. If between the partners - advice and love, most likely, the dominant role belongs to the woman. And it is not at all necessary that she is a sort of Nekrasov fighting woman, and he is a scoundrel and henpecked. Simply partners have reached that level of relations, when mutual trust and warmth supplant the competitive motives "who is whom."
Being in a more active position, a woman has the opportunity to do what she wants, and the way she wants. A partner (if, of course, he's all right with self-esteem), this behavior of the beloved, nothing but pleasure, will not deliver.
The funny thing is that the pose of a "rider" is often simply adored by women who completely depend (morally and / or financially) on their partners. It is very important for them to at least occasionally feel superiority, to be higher than their oppressor. A sexual pose just creates the desired illusion.
THE HUSBAND MASTER
If you often have sex in this position - your union is colored with a special emotional closeness and sincerity of feelings. From the woman's side, this position of the body means, "I completely trust you." As a rule, partners who prefer this position are equal in their relations. Even if their views do not coincide in some ways, they, always respecting each other's opinions, always find mutually acceptable solutions. In an intimate life for such people there are no prohibitions. They like to experiment, but they are always sensitive to the sexual "know-how" that gives pleasure to both.
But precisely because of its specificity, this position can express not only the closest proximity, but also the maximum degree of humiliation! For example, she is popular with rapists, aggressive men who want to subjugate a partner, make her feel like a weak-willed slave kneeling in front of the owner.
SEX STUDY
Despite originality, this method is rarely used by regular partners - except that as an exotic seasoning for the usual sexual "menu." And not only because he is very difficult to perform: try to keep your partner on weight, and even contrive to get pleasure at the same time! To carry out such a trick a man must have a fair amount of physical strength.
And yet this pose symbolizes passion, suddenness, swiftness and ... some lightness of relations. To have sex standing can be anywhere - in any secluded corner, which caught you a flash of love. A sort of sexy fast food, which does not require long preparations.
If you prefer sex standing, your romance is likely to be at the initial stage of development, when the main driving force of relationships is passion. "Standing" intim especially like impulsive, self-confident men, used to everything (in this case - partner) to keep in their hands. This provision allows them to make sure of their own strength, masculinity and absolute power over the situation.
Women, however, this posture can impress for another reason, also very far from sexual experiences. After all, frankly speaking, lucky people who managed to experience orgasm in such a bizarre position, not so many are found. But is not it nice to feel like a fragile, elegant and weightless (despite the extra few kilograms) Thumbelina in the hands of a courageous athlete! ..
You can endlessly unravel the erotic "na", finding in them new and unexpected nuances of moods, desires and feelings. You can analyze for a long time how you were engaged in sex, what poses preferred and what you would like to try in the future. Like mysterious hieroglyphs, they are always full of hidden meaning. These peculiar symbols are the language of our body, in which passion and love are expressed. The main thing is that close people understand each other and speak the same language. Then there will be less bitter disappointments, unfulfilled hopes. And the common expression "having sex" will lose its negative connotation and become a synonym for happiness and harmonious love.