So, before you figure out how to become the soul of any company, you need to exclude from your life all the extremes and limits in communication. Stop in your company to be very self-confident, boastful and with disdain to treat people. In other words, press down and let go of your inner self. In order to become an important person among friends, it is not necessary to let everyone know that you are the most extraordinary person, a special interlocutor, and communication with you is equated "in weight of gold." You need to completely change your style of communication. If you, from the very first day of your appearance in the company, try to become a best friend, adviser or so-called "rescuer from any turmoil" for everyone individually. Remember, this kind of behavior in any situation will cause distrust from your friends and even start to irritate them. The best way out of this situation will be if you accept full neutrality. This will be your main trump card on the way to gaining an honorary status, which will help you "become a soul" in this company. The main thing, always be observant and, as often as possible, look closely at your friends, studying them. This, of course, will help you understand what they live, their hobbies and tastes. Thanks to that you will be able to become much closer to them.
Of course, in order to become meaningful for your company as a person, you need to be able to present yourself very qualitatively and affordably. But remember that you do not need to impress everyone with your knowledge and stories "about yourself beloved". The best way to win respect for yourself is to show what you really are, not in words, but in deeds. And most importantly, in order to become the soul of the company, it is always necessary to have a great sense of humor. Namely, be able in time and successfully joke. Remember that such people are always very appreciated and, as a rule, they are drawn to the majority. Bore and boring people do not like. do not perceive at all, as one would like.
The first rule, on the way to mastering one of the first places among friends is your ability to never fail and always be an honest person. In order not to happen, remember that you have certain responsibilities to your friends. And even in case of force majeure, you need to behave decently and judiciously. For example, when you are going to rest with a company, you have all assigned your duties to each other (to whom, what to take or to do). You got the most basic thing - to buy bread or something else, without which your vacation in nature simply can not be ideal. And it is on this day, for a good reason, you can not go with friends. In such a situation, you should not talk about it at the last moment or, worse still, keep silent. Inform as early as possible that you can not complete the assignment, thereby showing that you are a responsible, honest and caring person. By the way, as life experience shows, if you, at least once fail your company, or somehow disagree with your friends, there is a very high probability that all subsequent "negative nuances" will be attributed to your address. There is already thinking about becoming the soul of the company, there is no point.
Another important indicator that will help you achieve respect is your refusal to publicly condemn your friends. It is not necessary to constantly point out to friends their mistakes and shortcomings. In this situation, firstly, it is very difficult to take a positive attitude toward a person who has already tortured everyone with his captiousness and diligence to constantly emphasize that everything happens in the wrong way. And secondly, most importantly, your friends are hardly likely, after all your remarks, to miss any of your mistakes in actions or words.
She is able to identify and recognize her own personal mistakes. Of course, in this case, you do not absolutely need to always blame yourself and blame yourself. And after each unsuccessfully made by you step, ask forgiveness from friends for their non-ideality. Remember that a person who knows how to calmly and correctly recognize his mistake and, with all this, successfully and effectively analyze it, having identified the main reasons, always creates a positive impression of himself.
Also, in order to become the soul of the company, you need not be afraid and worthy of perceiving criticism in your address. First of all, learn to distinguish worthy remarks from evil pods. Councils of friends who wish you only good, always need to listen carefully and take into service. These comments and advice may be of further use to you. But the evil podkoly from people who negatively perceive you, should not deserve from your side any attention or cause a feeling of anger.
Never try to be perfect. Remember that it is very difficult for others to be close to a person who everywhere and in everything is trying to be perfect and perfect. Remember that ideal people do not exist and therefore try on this mask is not at all tender.
Another important rule in order to become an important person for the company is your ability to think about others, not just about yourself. Remember that all friends who are close to you need attention, understanding and support. Be aware of the fact that someone expects you to give him a helping hand and help with important advice. Learn to listen carefully and understand your friends. Be able to create such an atmosphere that a person could tell you about what worries him. Listening skills will certainly help you get closer to the company. And finally, remember that your smile and positive emotions will always attract friends to you, and thanks to this you will always be in the center of attention of your company.